My husband and I attended his work Christmas party on Friday night. Free food + great entertainment + a night away from the kids + a chance to win door prizes = SOLD!
It’s sometimes awkward for me to attend work functions for my husband. This is a part-time, temporary job, not what his career will be, and many of his co-workers are high school and college age, significantly younger than us and in a 100 percent different season of life.
Still, I looked forward to the party. The entertainment was the same as last year — a singing duo with great vocal range, everything from Motown to country to pop. The guy also plays the flute and the sax, and the lady wears great shoes that have been the talk of the party. They’re a lot of fun and extremely talented.
While the dinner music played this year, I noticed a theme I couldn’t ignore.
So, here’s a list of 10 songs that shouldn’t be on the playlist for a Christmas party, in this case a work Christmas party.
1. “Bye, Bye Love.” Goodbye, happiness. Hello, loneliness. I feel like I could die. Correct me if I’m wrong, but don’t people struggle with depression around the holidays? Is Christmas the right time to be singing about a break-up?
2. “Margaritaville.” It was a non-alcoholic party. ‘Nuff said, right? Although maybe the idea was to create an urge to take a vacation from the cold winter weather of central Pennsylvania.
3. “Tears on My Pillow.” See #1. Break-up songs + Christmas = awkward at best.
4. “Forget You.” Though the guy did a decent Cee Lo cover, it’s yet another break-up song. And the original version contains the big “F-bomb,” though I wouldn’t have known that if my husband hadn’t told me.
5. “Runaround Sue.” All I want for Christmas is a girl who won’t cheat on me.
6. “Man! I Feel Like a Woman.” The words “gonna let it all hang out” make me cringe in mixed company, especially when that company includes female co-workers your husband sees daily.
7. “Rolling in the Deep.” Great song, and if you can’t tell what it’s about, then maybe it doesn’t matter. More relationship angst.
8. “Build Me Up Buttercup.” More unfaithfulness, more unrequited love. Did I miss something about what Christmas is all about?
9. “She’s a Brick House.” Refer to #6 on the “hanging out” lyrics. Also, because the male entertainer of the duo demonstrated a suggestive move for the ladies on the dance floor to imitate. It was like prom meets bad wedding reception.
10. Anything by Lady Gaga, especially when it’s the last song of the evening and it’s “Bad Romance.” Catchy if you don’t listen to the words. But the main reason it makes the list is my husband’s reaction as he turned away from the dance floor: “I’m not going to look. I don’t want to know which of my coworkers wants a bad romance.”
The singers did their fair share of appropriate Christmas and dance music, too, so maybe creating this list means I’m getting old. I should add that we had a great time and came home with a Ruby Tuesday gift card. Date night bonus!
What do you think about these songs as Christmas party entertainment? Do you have any to add? Should I have left any of these off the list?
I have to admit that # 1, 3, 4, 5, 7, 8, & 10 are songs that I love. lol! I would enjoy them at a Christmas party. I don’t know. Maybe I’m not thinking about it hard enough. But I’m the kind of person that likes to hear sad songs when I’m sad…It helps to know somebody feels my pain, I guess. I think it might be worse to have to sing/listen to happy cheerful songs when you are not feeling happy and cheerful. Isn’t there a verse about that? Singing light songs to a heavy heart is like pouring salt on a wound or something like that? I guess I don’t know if that means you are supposed to sing *heavy* songs to a heavy heart. Maybe that’s not even actually about singing, I guess I don’t really know!
I’m glad you had a great time at the party! Shawn and I went on our 3rd date of the year on Saturday, lol! Well–It was a date if you count Christmas shopping as a date, which I do. =) We are really livin’ it up in 2011!! It was really fun though. I’m glad you guys had a good time, too. =)
Yay for dates! I would count anything as long as the kids were home/away with someone else. 🙂 Good point about needing to hear sad stuff when you’re sad. Thanks for the feedback!
Well, I didn’t count my eye doctor emergency as a date, but otherwise, yeah. I agree!