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Learning the Art of Self-challenge by Jason Jaggard

January 7, 2013

Here’s another slice of New Year’s wisdom, this time by speaker and writer Jason Jaggard. Challenging advice.

Through taking healthy risks that make you a better person or the  world a better place, you begin to develop a deeper appetite for good.  At first it might not be very tasty. Taking even a small risk can be  more difficult than it sounds. And that is why we have to practice. We  have to develop the skill of challenging ourselves.

We want the act of making healthy choices to become a natural and  authentic part of who we are. But before something can become a habit,  it often is a hassle. Put another way: if we want new habits to become  instinctual, then they must first be intentional. And in order for that  to happen, we have to practice the sacred art of self-challenge.

sparkwordI don’t want to freak you out, but what we’re really talking about is  obedience. Obedience to God is the path that leads to Life. It’s the  path that transforms you into the person you long to be. And obedience always requires risk.

What’s amazing is that much of our obedience is instinctual. In at  least some areas of life, we naturally make healthy choices. We  naturally smile at a stranger, or perhaps we have a great work ethic or  are naturally curious or easygoing.

Yet we can’t define obedience solely in terms of what comes naturally. Often our greatest moments of obedience come when it is least  natural. Perhaps our natural tendency in certain situations is  unhealthy or hurtful. Or perhaps what we naturally want to do is  nothing, to avoid taking action when action is called for. In these  moments we have to choose something else, something we don’t want to do,  something that, most likely, will move us into the space of the  unknown.

I want to be a person who is able to act—who is able to obey—even when it’s unnatural.

Intentionality and risk are the ways we develop a greater capacity to  obey. When we say, “I’m going to do this thing that I wouldn’t normally  do,” we are developing the capacity to grow into the people we were  meant to be.

When Jesus invited people to follow Him, He was inviting them to obey  Him. There are parts of you that already reflect God’s character, parts  of your uniqueness that are expressions of something God wanted to say  when He created you. Those are already consistent with following Jesus.

Maybe it’s your smile. Maybe it’s your way with people. Maybe it’s your work ethic. Maybe it’s your sense of right and wrong. Maybe it’s your intelligence or your curiosity for life. Maybe it’s your sense of responsibility or your flare for fun.

These things are good just the way they are. It’s easy to obey when  God calls us to things we naturally love. When God calls us to the stuff  we already like (which happens a lot more than we realize), it’s one of  the great pleasures of life.

Risk is the central narrative of the scriptures. When I do Spark  Group trainings with faith communities, I always have participants do  this exercise:

1. Pick any person in the scriptures that comes to mind. 2. Identify the risk God called that person to take.

This is surprisingly easy. And once people get going, it’s hard to  get them to stop. Abraham: stopped living with his parents at age  seventy and moved into no man’s land to start his own nation. Moses:  even with a speech impediment, he stood up to the most powerful man in  the world to liberate an enslaved people. Mary: endured the shame of  people assuming she had been unfaithful to her fiancé. Joseph: remained  committed to a teenage girl, his fiancée, who in the eyes of their  neighbors and extended family was almost certainly an adulteress.

Samson.

Ruth.

The apostle Paul.

Rahab.

The twelve fellas who quit their jobs to follow Jesus, most of whom were later killed for doing so. The people whose stories are recorded in the history of the scriptures  all took risks—often huge risks—to be a part of what God was doing in  the world. It seems like a prerequisite for being mentioned in the  narrative of the movement of God is the willingness and courage to risk. Like God’s people throughout history, we can jump into life in ways  that only we can so that God can move in ways we cannot. Call it faith  if you want, but in terms of everyday life, it’s risk. And it’s through  risk that God can change our lives.

Faith. Love. Hope.

Risk. Compassion. Optimism.

When we begin to live out these values, we create a context that is  thick with potential. When we have the courage to take risks of compassion that produce optimism in others, we create space for God to move and work. We begin to form our souls into the kind of textured lives that gives God traction to guide us into the future He dreamed we could  participate in. And we become fully alive.

This is what Jesus did two thousand years ago. He assembled a team  and spent three years with them, throwing them into the deep end of  serving humanity. Coaching them. Teaching them. And then He kept saying  weird things, such as “Have faith in me and you will do greater things  than what I have done.”

And then, before He turned His followers and friends loose to serve  humanity on God’s behalf, He said: “Go, create cultures of servant leadership, of risk, compassion, and optimism out of every society.”

He looked into the eyes of folks like you and me and said, “Go.” Risk. Care. Create. Just like the people you’ve read about in this book, you have ideas  that need to be set free. God has placed potential inside you, potential  for creative joy and love, strength and peace. And all of that needs to  be unleashed.

So risk. Choose something. Do something. Partner together with God  and others to pull off something beautiful that serves humanity. It will  be hard. You will experience failure. But I promise, you will never regret it.

As Steven Ma put it: “It’s definitely a challenge. It’s definitely a risk. But most important: it’s fun.” This is the way the world heals. It is the way God has chosen to move  through the contours of history. He has chosen our hearts, our feet, our  fingertips. Some people will hear God’s voice only if it sounds like  ours, inviting them into the adventure of hope that we have been invited  into.

This is how we spark our world. When we begin to realize that  learning is a verb and that life is the best classroom. When we begin  taking risks of compassion in the context of community. When we start  intentionally leaning into our relationships, our careers, our faith.  When we step outside of our comfort zones and experience a life that can  exist only if God is with us.

Our world will begin to change.

One small risk at a time.

Adapted from Spark by Jason Jaggard with permission of WaterBrook Press, a division of Random House, Inc. All rights reserved.

Filed Under: faith & spirituality Tagged With: healthy risks, jason jaggard, new year's challenges, obedience, spark

Saturday Smiles: Vacation style edition

January 5, 2013

Our “vacations” are seldom exotic. I mean, come on, we were raised in Illinois and that’s where most of our time away happens. But we do our best to keep it interesting.

Our week started with an overnight drive on New Year’s Eve, which I initially thought was a crazy idea but turned out okay. Especially when we could say it took us TWO YEARS to get home. (What can I say? We’re easily amused. Even more so when we’re sleep deprived. More on that later.)

New Year’s Day was a blur for me because I napped for an entire morning. (Oh, that brings a smile to my face. Naps are so rare for me. Three hours of uninterrupted sleep in the middle of the day. Heaven.) Later we were introduced to Duck Dynasty (seriously, I’ve never laughed so hard in my life. We’ve added this to our personal must-see TV list) and cracked up every time my mom mentioned Pinterest. (She was off work for a week without the grandkids to keep her occupied, so she had some Internet surfing time.) To her credit, we have eaten some delicious food she found on Pinterest. (But it’s weird when one of your parents gets comfortable with social media.)

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAWednesday was Christmas Rewind day as our kids opened their presents from grandparents and great-grandparents. We are now the proud owners of a Barbie beach house and Barbie convertible as well as an entire fleet of Coast Guard rescue vehicles and men. And a train set. I’m thinking we should have given away all our kids’ toys before we left home because I have NO IDEA where this stuff is going to go.

My grandma made our son an orange afghan (orange is his favorite color) and after we told him she made it, he asked of every other present, “Did you make this?”

I’m thinking our family will have this exchange at family gatherings from now on: “Did you make this?” “Yes, I found it on Pinterest.” (It was a lot funnier when I hadn’t had much sleep.)

Also, this might be my most favorite picture of the whole year, no matter what else happens.

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Phil and I took Thursday and Friday to get out of town. We used some hotel points for a free night’s stay and headed up to Lake County, north of the city (that’s Chicago, the greatest city in the world, as we like to say).

On the way up we ate here.

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This deli/cafe is legendary in my husband’s family. His maternal side is German, so authentic German food is a big deal. I had beef goulash with spaetzle (best egg noodles on the planet) and red cabbage. Phil had a sausage platter with three different kinds, and a side of sauerkraut. I’ve never been a big fan of sauerkraut, but I can stomach a taste of it now and then. It was fun to–finally–experience this with him. We’ve been talking about it for a long time.

We spent some time at the Gurnee Mills Mall, something neither of us had done in years. We played the $5 game, where we can only buy one thing for ourselves and it has to be about $5. Phil got this sweet hat. OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA

Just in time for the playoffs. Or next season. I bought some blank canvas material for a yet-to-be-determined creative project I need to complete this month. We ate Oberwies ice cream while watching Elementary in real time. (Usually we have to watch it a day or two later.)

Our getaway also included two visits to a monastery/chapel/shrine. We are not Catholic but were intrigued by the artwork and experience of visiting. We stopped there on the way to our hotel and felt a little bit lost and intrusive. We decided to go back the next day so I could take some notes and jot some thoughts and we could spend a little more time there. (I plan to write about this more later this month.) It was an inspiring and thought-provoking visit.

We met my brother for lunch at a historic roundhouse in Aurora. (Our 3-year-old was pretty jazzed to be eating lunch at a train station.)

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAThen the kids got to stop at a train park on the way back to our vacation headquarters.

Spending time with family is always a highlight of our trips home and we’ve done plenty of that. And the best part of all: we still have another week of visiting and fun!

Filed Under: food, holidays, Saturday smiles Tagged With: catholic shrine, christmas, family visits, German food, gurnee mills mall, holidays, kuhn's deli, marytown, vacation

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