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Beauty on the Backroads

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Was it just me or did November fly?

December 1, 2021

November was a whole vibe. Until about the last week of the month, it felt like a giant blob of nothingness, then all of a sudden it was full steam ahead. I keep these records for me and our family because I like to remember all the things we’ve done, the special and ordinary moments we have each month. My day-to-day memory is terrible in the midst of stress and other difficulties. This month, while talking to a friend, I forgot that our family went to Illinois for part of our summer break. Because the pandemic has me questioning all of time. Anyway, if you get some enjoyment out of our ordinary lives, great. If not, I probably won’t stop. 🙂 Here’s our November round-up of What We Did, What We Ate, What We Watched and What We Read.

What We Did

Early in the month, I got my COVID booster shot. I went in at 3 p.m. on Friday, was in bed by 8 p.m. and slept till almost 7 a.m. the next day. I woke up,  read till 8:30 a.m., took 2 naps, and slept for another 10 hours that night. By Sunday I was back to normal. This was a huge difference from my first shot back in March, so I was pleased.

Phil took the kids to Central Market on the Saturday morning after I got my booster shot. In addition to the vegetables and fruit we needed for the week, he bought them coffee drinks and pastries. (!) The next Saturday, I asked if I could go with or if the kids wanted it to just be a dad thing. There was no strong feeling one way or the other, so we all went and had coffees and bagels or muffins. This has become a regular Saturday practice for us, at least until basketball games start.

Speaking of basketball, our son had his basketball evaluation. for the winter rec league season. He’s excited to get started.

Months ago, tickets went on sale for a local theater production called Emma, the Matchmaker. I had wanted to go the last time it was offered but wasn’t comfortable going by myself since Phil usually works on the nights it was offered. This time around, I decided to go for it because I’m trying to live my life the way I want to live it. I want to do the things I want to do while I have the chance. So, on a Friday night, I took myself on a date to this production staged in a late-18th-century plantation house. The audience followed the actors through four rooms and a hallway of the house, and it was delightful. Plus, Emma is my favorite of Jane Austen’s works because while I swoon for Mr. Darcy in Pride and Prejudice, Mr. Knightley is the Austen hero I would choose to spend a life with. I’ve missed local theater. I love creativity in all forms. I needed to do this for me. 

Phil and I woke up at 3:45 one morning to go outside and see a lunar eclipse. It was cloudy but we caught small glimpses of the phenomenon. I love eclipses and celestial phenomena of all kinds. Worth it.

ExtraGive, Lancaster’s biggest day of giving. Every year, no matter what our financial state, we give to community organizations on this ginormous day of giving. It always restores my faith in humanity.

Saturday morning walk with Phil while the kids were at a rehearsal for church. We hadn’t been in the woods together since the incident at the end of September. We took a flat, paved path in a suburban neighborhood, but it was beautiful.  And it’s nice to have to time to finish a conversation without interruptions from a highly opinionated teenager and pre-teenager.

Youth service at church. Our kids participated in this annual event. I loved seeing their creativity come through.

An Outlander Celebration, online book release party for the 9th book in the Outlander series. I’ve only been an Outlander fan for a couple of years, but what I lack in longevity, I make up for with enthusiasm.

Haircuts. Long overdue. So fresh. I feel like a different person.

Turkey trot. I ran it by myself. It was my first in-person race in more than two years, and while I didn’t break any personal records, I was just glad to get out there and do it and finish. It was encouraging.

A Longwood Christmas at Longwood Gardens. We used our membership to attend this popular event on Thanksgiving Day. Maybe that wasn’t the best choice, but it was the day that had the most tickets available when we were looking. It’s a magical spectacle. Super crowded. But I’m glad we went.

On Black Friday, we headed to the Christmas tree farm to cut down our tree for the year. This is the first time in years that we’ve gone to the farm to cut down a tree. 

We had friends over for dinner during our long break for Thanksgiving. We played a couple of board games/card games–CodeNames and Icons–after dinner. It was a fun reminder that we love to have people in our house and should do more of that.

Braces. Our daughter got braces on the last day of our Thanksgiving break. She’s the first in our family to have them, and the first few days were a rough ride. It’s going to be a long year.

And on the very last day of the month, Phil started his new job. What a long six weeks it was.

What We Ate

Soup! It’s at least a once-a-week menu item in the fall and winter. This month we made: Butternut squash soup. Egg drop soup. and Ham and bean soup. 

Squash bread. Phil made his signature bread to take as our snack offering for small group, and our friends ate it up without asking questions. 🙂

Fish pie. I keep forgetting to take pictures of our food because we eat it when it’s hot. This is like chicken pot pie or shepherd’s pie, but with fish as the meat.

This amazing breakfast sandwich from Farm2Table at Lancaster Central Market. I wasn’t feeling bagels when we went the Saturday before Thanksgiving. A good breakfast sandwich is my jam.

Klondike bars. For nostalgia and introducing the kids to treats of yesteryear.

Salted caramel pop-tarts. Um, what? These are better than I expected. Phil bought pop-tarts as breakfast treat for Thanksgiving morning.

Thanksgiving Day: Baltimore pit beef sandwiches, fingerling potatoes, green bean casserole, pumpkin bars (our go-to fall dessert). We don’t always do the traditional turkey on Thanksgiving, especially if it’s just going to be the four of us.

But, on the day after Thanksgiving, we did do a more traditional meal: smoked turkey breast, homemade stuffing, mashed purple sweet potatoes, maple-mustard glazed brussels sprouts. All delish.

For our dinner guests, we made Swedish meatballs from a recipe my aunt gave me years ago. Yum.

What We Watched

LegoMasters. We finished. Whew. What a ride. 

Saturday Night Live clips. Small doses of television guaranteed to make me laugh. I have loved sketch comedy for most of my life.

Kim’s Convenience. A few episodes here and there.

What If …? Episodes 3, 4 and 5 were hard to watch. But we finished the series and feel pretty good about how it ended.

Grantchester. 

Jungle Cruise. A bit hokey. Some good jokes. Plus THE ROCK. I had some issues with the ending, but it’s Disney, so I guess I can’t really expect anything different.

Paul Blart: Mall Cop. Our son is a member of the 6th-grade safety patrol for his bus, so we often call him a bus cop. We thought it was necessary for him to see this movie. It did not disappoint for him.

Over the Hedge. This was another one for our son’s sake because he’s like Hammy the Squirrel. We had lots of laughs.

The World According to Jeff Goldblum. Phil and I found this series on Disney Plus and it’s delightful because Jeff Goldblum is quirky, curious and childlike.

Shang-Chi and the Legend of the Ten Rings. Okay, this might be my all-time favorite Marvel movie. And it’s hard to go back to watching Simu Liu in Kim’s Convenience after seeing him in this

What We Read

Jesus and John Wayne, book club, continued. We got so tired of talking about the same things every week that we finally decided to just finish the book once and for all and talk about it once. I finished it. I need a spiritual palate cleanser now because I just feel icky.

Death by Water by Kerry Greenwood. More Phryne Fisher. I won’t apologize.

Evil Spy School by Stuart Gibbs. I love reading this series together with my kids, and I enjoy the story and characters, too.

Darius the Great is Not Okay by Adib Khorram. I bought this one at a book fair last year. The main character is an American-born high school boy with Persian parents. They have to make a trip to Iran to visit family. Darius wrestles with his identity as a “fractional Persian”–his mom was born in Iran, his dad is American, he was born in America–and it’s honest and compelling. 

Temptation Ridge by Robyn Carr. Yep, it’s back to Virgin River for me. I want to keep knowing about the characters but some of the writing is starting to annoy me. How long until the series returns on Netflix?

A Rogue of One’s Own by Evie Dunmore. Book 2 in the League of Extraordinary Women series.

The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian by Sherman Alexie. This is one of those “classics” I missed. I love YA literature because of the way its authors write POV. I underlined some things in this one that I absolutely loved. I understand there are some personal issues with the author. Still, I think this is a valuable read.

Portrait of a Scotsman by Evie Dunmore. Book 3 in the League of Extraordinary Women series. This one was my favorite. This whole series is so unique and compelling.

The Beautiful Mystery by Louise Penny. Another unforgettable Inspector Gamache novel. Usually I take some time before grabbing the next one in the series, but the way this one ended had me checking out the next one immediately from the library.

Paradise Valley by Robyn Carr. Okay, I might need a break from the Virgin River book series.

Spy Ski School by Stuart Gibbs. We started this one at the end of the month.

Filed Under: holidays, monthly roundup Tagged With: Longwood Gardens, november, soup season, turkey trot

How we spent our Christmas vacation

January 3, 2021

Last year, I occasionally blogged about how we were spending our socially distant pandemic days as a way to remember the time and how we spent it. I decided to do the same thing for our Christmas vacation because Phil took the week off of work and for the first time since moving to Pennsylvania, we didn’t go home at all for Christmas or New Year’s.

I’ve broken it down into categories to make it easier for you to follow along, and I didn’t record everything (because no one needs to know how long the kids played video games or how many times I washed dishes).

Movies we watched

On Christmas Eve, we kicked off our break with a family tradition, White Christmas, and to make it more interesting for our son who claimed he would be bored, we tracked all the instances of smoking in the movie (because the movie’s rating mentions smoking). Spoiler alert: it’s not a few times.

Egg nog and “White Christmas” is a tradition

Earlier that same day, I watched While You Were Sleeping, which I consider another must-watch of the holiday season.

On Christmas Day, after presents and video calls, we watched Star Wars: The Rise of Skywalker. Phil and Corban had seen this in theaters last Christmas (was it ONLY last year??) but Isabelle and I hadn’t seen it yet. Our work here is done.

In keeping with our Saturday night tradition, we watched another Marvel movie: The Avengers: Age of Ultron. We are slowly working our way through the Marvel universe in order, and man, did I forget how weird this one is.

Tuesday night, we watched Soul, the new Disney/Pixar movie, and friends, this is the movie we needed for 2020.

New Year’s Eve was our movie marathon day. Each member of the family got to pick a movie to watch. Isabelle chose Hamilton, which took up our entire morning and for that we are not sorry. Phil chose Eddie the Eagle about a British ski jumper in 1988 Calgary Olympics. It’s a feel-good story (and yes we are enjoying our Disney Plus membership gifted to us by a family member). I chose Jurassic Park (the original classic one) and Corban chose Home Alone 2. (We watched Home Alone the weekend before our break started.) That took us until 11 p.m.

During the week, Phil and I finished Series 11 of Doctor Who, which we had checked out of the library.

Food We Ate

If you know us, you know that food is a big deal, and we were not leaving our week-at-home eating to chance. We carefully planned out our dinner meals and extra treats so that we could stock up at the store and not have to think about what we were having every day. (We use a Google doc to keep ourselves organized. Nerd alert!)

For Christmas Eve, we wanted something that felt like comfort food, so we made chicken pot pie (or chicken pie as it’s known in Lancaster; the kind that’s made with a pie crust, not with pasta in a pot; food names are weird). We ate cookies our neighbor dropped off and drank eggnog with the movie, which is part of the White Christmas watching tradition.

Breakfast on Christmas morning was cinnamon rolls from a can (we have not tried homemade yet because of time but think we may have to), tropical fruit, sausages and hot drinks.

Chef Phil breaking down the meat

We grazed on a variety of meats, cheeses, olives and crackers for lunch while dinner cooked in the oven. For years, Phil has wanted to make porchetta, a recipe he saw in a Michael Symon cookbook. It requires a fresh ham, which he ordered from a local butcher, and it was bigger than we expected. Still, we pressed on with the prep and cooking, and it was delicious! With the porchetta we had cornbread stuffing (a new recipe we tried from Bon Appetit magazine) and a shaved Brussels sprouts salad (another Chef Symon recipe) and sourdough bread (not homemade) with Irish butter. I drank a beer. Phil had whisky. Our dessert was Jello poke cake.

The full meal, minus dessert

On Saturdays, our son chooses the menu from a rotation of meals he has approved. This week it was a mac and cheese casserole that usually contains hot dogs, but we convinced him to include some of the leftover porchetta meat. Mixed frozen vegetables on the side.

Sunday was our hike day (more on that later) and one of the culinary adventures we wanted to have during our Christmas break was MREs. Phil ordered a random bundle of them online and we took them on our hike. The promise of a hot meal sustained us as we hiked in the sub-30-degree temps, but the air temperature may have been too cold for the heating chemical to work properly. Still, we had a picnic at an outcropping next to a lake in December–a fun memory! Some of the MRE contents included: teriyaki beef sticks (which come from nearby Lebanon, PA), bread with cheese sauce, trail mix, crackers with chocolate peanut butter sauce, a chocolate toaster pastry, chocolate pudding, southwestern chicken burrito bowl, beef ravioli, tortellini with tomato sauce, southwestern beef and beans.

For dinner, we had pierogis (from frozen), chicken tenders (from frozen) and raw broccoli (must have a vegetable!).

On Monday for lunch, Phil made grilled cheese sandwiches out of the sourdough and leftover porchetta, and this was my first grilled cheese that used mayonnaise instead of butter on the outside of the sandwich. It was not a mistake!

Dinner was an assortment of canned soups of the Campbell’s and Progresso varieties. (Part of our intention for food was to do things we don’t normally do, and canned soups is not a regular part of our diet.)

Tuesday and Wednesday featured a lot of local takeout.

Fruit, granola, coconut, peanut butter, frozen açaí puree–a refreshing combination

For lunch on Tuesday, we had açaí bowls from Oola Bowls, a stand at Central Market. We followed that up with salad. Tuesday was like a cleanse day for us except there were still a lot of cookies and other leftovers in the house.

On Wednesday, the boys wanted to get McRibs from McDonald’s and I avoid the golden arches as much as possible, so the girls ordered crepes from Rachel’s Creperie. (Son and I had crepes the week of Thanksgiving and daughter did not get to participate, so this was a double win for me.)

I’m pretty sure I could eat one of these every day.

After watching a taste-testing episode of Mexican food a few weeks ago, we were hungry for authentic Mexican food. We ordered from Cocina Mexicana (enchiladas verdes for me-yum! There were also tamales, and chile rellanos and nachos and chorizo fries.)

Can’t go wrong with tamales

New Year’s Eve was another feasting sort of day. We started with monkey bread for breakfast. Leftovers for lunch. For dinner, we had sweet and sour meatballs, crab rangoon dip, other chips and dips, veggies, Christmas cookies, more meat and cheese. I drank a beer long before midnight. The kids toasted with sparkling grape juice. Phil had Scotch. I was on to water by then.

Activities We Did

Besides watching movies and eating food, we did some other things during our break.

I put together a puzzle, with some help.

I did not finish the puzzle before Santa arrived.

We video called with family, multiple times.

Hi, family!

On Saturday, we spent most of the day cleaning and organizing the kitchen, the mud room and the mud room closet. I cannot tell you how amazing it feels to have these rooms functional and uncluttered. I even got rid of some coffee mugs and some pans we don’t use.

We caught a Pokemon on the trail.

Sunday was our hiking day. We went to Muddy Run Park in southern Lancaster County and took the Lakeside Trail, which was adverted as “rugged walking.” The sign was not wrong. When we started, the ground was still a bit frozen but as the day went on, it loosened up a bit. All of us were on the ground at one point or another during the hike. We were cold and tired and bruised a little by the time we got home, but the fresh air did us good.

We hike in winter so you don’t have to. Enjoy!

We returned to cleaning on Monday, this time an area of the living room where the kids keep their legos and various other toys and projects. This, too, took up a large part of our day, but it, too, is satisfying. We’re still waiting on a shelving unit we ordered to complete the project, but cleaning was a big checkmark on the to-do list.

Before cleaning I went to the library.

The backyard is the most impressive part of the display, but I did not get a picture of that.

That night, we drove around looking at Christmas lights. This house on Longfellow Drive in Lancaster is an annual favorite. They raise money for Make-A-Wish and this picture does not even do justice to the amount of lights and holiday cheer that are on and around this house.

Tuesday was Christmas cookie day. Isabelle and I made the sugar cookie dough for Grandma’s cookies and then tried our hands at twisty candy cane cookies. Both required a lot of time and effort but it was worth it in the end.

Fun and educational!

We played a game of Icons: Women Who Play to Win. Highly recommend this card game. We did some online shopping so the kids could spend their Christmas money/gift cards.

On Wednesday, I had to run to Target because we were nearly out of toilet paper and I needed some mailing supplies. I bought myself a 2021 planner because I’m feeling optimistic.

After lunch I helped Phil put his new seat cover in the truck. Isabelle and I frosted the sugar cookies. And I attended a webinar on social media use. I prepped cookies and packages for mailing.

No kittens were harmed in the playing of this game

Our post-dinner entertainment was two rounds of the Exploding Kittens card game, another Christmas gift. Another recommendation.

I walked into the Post Office like freaking Santa Claus

Isabelle and I braved the post office on the morning of New Year’s Eve and it actually went better than expected. We were in and out in less than 10 minutes. I talked to one of my grandmas on the phone. In the afternoon, I went to visit a friend who is recovering from surgery. (We wore masks the whole time and stayed six feet apart.)

Books We Read

And what would a vacation be without reading? No vacation at all for our little family unit.

Corban and I finished The Tale of Despereaux on Christmas Eve Eve. I loved every bit of it. I finished the eighth Phryne Fisher mystery, Urn Burial, a few days after Christmas and started reading Clanlands: Whisky, Warfare and a Scottish Adventure Like No Other. Phil got two books for Christmas and he’s alternating between them: Birding at the Bridge, which talks about birds at the Brooklyn Bridge, two of his favorite things; and The Rise: Black Cooks and the Soul of American Food, a cookbook. He reads some cookbooks like actual books and I admire him for that. Isabelle plowed through a bunch of books in the I,Q series.

Additionally, there was the usual bits of housework, some resting and napping, some fighting and irritation between people, dishes and laundry and lots of video game playing because the boy child got a new gaming system for birthday/Christmas from everyone.

As with Thanksgiving, it may not have been the holiday we wanted, but it turned out just fine.

And now back to our regularly scheduled schedules. Happy New Year!

Filed Under: family, holidays, social distancing Tagged With: board games, christmas vacation, home for christmas, local takeout, pandemic holiday, winter hiking

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