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Beauty on the Backroads

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Saturday smiles: holiday/birthday edition

December 7, 2011

You don’t have to check your calendar. It’s not Saturday. But we were so busy having fun celebrating my son’s birthday and having family visit this weekend that posting my weekly smile-makers was pushed to the back burner.

Here are my holiday and birthday-themed reasons to smile.

It started with a birthday. My son’s second. Adorable, right? Let’s just say that looks can be deceiving. He’s setting us up for a more “terrible” two than his sister did. But Friday was his day to celebrate, so we did it up right. Homemade pop-tarts, eggs and sausage for breakfast. (In my husband’s family, the birthday boy or girl gets to choose their meals for the day. Corban didn’t exactly choose them this time around, but he enjoyed everything we gave him.)

And this crazy-looking plate of food for lunch. Octo-dogs and shells is what the recipe from the kids cookbook called it. Hot dogs. Cheese crackers. Pasta. What could be better?

How about dirt cake in a dump truck with gummy worms crawling throughout? Let me tell you, this whole creepy crawlie, dirty, monster, cars and trucks stuff is stretching my imagination. I find my daughter with her princess, dolls and ballerina obsessions much easier to accommodate creatively.

But I did manage to pull this off. That was cake 1 of 2. After a fruitless search for Bob the Builder toys (confession: I didn’t check Toys R Us. I just couldn’t go in there on a December Saturday. I might have lost my mind.) this is what I came up with.

So, my second effort was the one you see below. Graham cracker crumbs, chocolate graham goldfish crackers, tic tacs and some toys we had at home (plus a few extras I picked up at the dollar store) and voila! Bob the Builder cake without Bob.

Every time I’m able to make a special cake for my kids’ birthday, it’s a reason to smile. I’m no professional, but I have a lot of fun!

Next up was my husband’s work Christmas party. You can read more about the entertainment here. This is what makes me smile most about holiday parties.

My husband’s green pants. And people’s reactions to them. And the fact that we really did get them for like $10 at an outlet store in Illinois and the price on the tag was in the $200 range. Christmas is my husband’s favorite excuse for the green pants. Maybe second only to St. Patrick’s Day.

Our weekend of fun and celebration also included a trip to Koziar’s Christmas Village. Two years ago, we made our first visit to this incredible spectacle in the middle of nowhere. I was VERY pregnant, days away from delivering the son that just turned two. Temperatures were below freezing, and I was miserable. This time, I couldn’t wait to take the kids back and see how they enjoyed the lights, the window displays and (spoiler alert!) Santa.

There’s something magical about seeing Christmas through your kids’ eyes. As they get older, especially, it’s fun to watch them react. I almost can’t wait for the first snow. Almost. I missed playing with them in it the first time it snowed this year (in October!)

I don’t know what it is about lights, but Koziar’s Christmas Village creates more than just a festive atmosphere with their light displays. This one across the pond is among the first you see when you enter, and it’s my favorite.

We stood in line for Santa, and I had no good idea how it was going to go. I had fears that we’d be the parents with the kids crying on Santa’s lap with a “priceless” photo to show for it. It was close, but we ended up with this.

Corban was not crazy about this bearded man, but he hung in there okay.

I’m still smiling at this picture.

Other smile-makers this week:

  • breakfast with a good friend.
  • a clean kitchen
  • 12 days without a potty accident by the 3-year-old
  • washing baby clothes for my soon-to-be born nephew

On a gray, winter day, with a mix of snow, rain and ice in the forecast, looking back on the week brings some light and warmth to the day.

What are you smiling about today?

Filed Under: holidays, Saturday smiles Tagged With: birthdays, christmas, christmas village, homemade children's birthday cakes, light displays, reasons to smile, second birthday

10 songs you shouldn’t hear at a Christmas party

December 4, 2011

My husband and I attended his work Christmas party on Friday night. Free food + great entertainment + a night away from the kids + a chance to win door prizes = SOLD!

It’s sometimes awkward for me to attend work functions for my husband. This is a part-time, temporary job, not what his career will be, and many of his co-workers are high school and college age, significantly younger than us and in a 100 percent different season of life.

Still, I looked forward to the party. The entertainment was the same as last year — a singing duo with great vocal range, everything from Motown to country to pop. The guy also plays the flute and the sax, and the lady wears great shoes that have been the talk of the party. They’re a lot of fun and extremely talented.

While the dinner music played this year, I noticed a theme I couldn’t ignore.

So, here’s a list of 10 songs  that shouldn’t be on the playlist for a Christmas party, in this case a work Christmas party.

1. “Bye, Bye Love.” Goodbye, happiness. Hello, loneliness. I feel like I could die. Correct me if I’m wrong, but don’t people struggle with depression around the holidays? Is Christmas the right time to be singing about a break-up?

2. “Margaritaville.” It was a non-alcoholic party. ‘Nuff said, right? Although maybe the idea was to create an urge to take a vacation from the cold winter weather of central Pennsylvania.

3. “Tears on My Pillow.” See #1. Break-up songs + Christmas = awkward at best.

4. “Forget You.” Though the guy did a decent Cee Lo cover, it’s yet another break-up song. And the original version contains the big “F-bomb,” though I wouldn’t have known that if my husband hadn’t told me.

5. “Runaround Sue.” All I want for Christmas is a girl who won’t cheat on me.

6. “Man! I Feel Like a Woman.” The words “gonna let it all hang out” make me cringe in mixed company, especially when that company includes female co-workers your husband sees daily.

7. “Rolling in the Deep.” Great song, and if you can’t tell what it’s about, then maybe it doesn’t matter. More relationship angst.

8. “Build Me Up Buttercup.” More unfaithfulness, more unrequited love. Did I miss something about what Christmas is all about?

9. “She’s a Brick House.” Refer to #6 on the “hanging out” lyrics. Also, because the male entertainer of the duo demonstrated a suggestive move for the ladies on the dance floor to imitate. It was like prom meets bad wedding reception.

10. Anything by Lady Gaga, especially when it’s the last song of the evening and it’s “Bad Romance.” Catchy if you don’t listen to the words. But the main reason it makes the list is my husband’s reaction as he turned away from the dance floor: “I’m not going to look. I don’t want to know which of my coworkers wants a bad romance.”

The singers did their fair share of appropriate Christmas and dance music, too, so maybe creating this list means I’m getting old. I should add that we had a great time and came home with a Ruby Tuesday gift card. Date night bonus!

What do you think about these songs as Christmas party entertainment? Do you have any to add? Should I have left any of these off the list?

Filed Under: holidays Tagged With: awkward situations, Christmas music, Christmas parties, date night, embarrassing moments, live entertainment, music

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