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Beauty on the Backroads

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Closing out 2021 with a final monthly round-up

January 2, 2022

We started December with advent calendars and a birthday and ended with the end of the year. December 2021 … we finally made it, but I haven’t totally processed that it’s another new year already. Pandemic times are confusing for my brain. Anyway, here’s the last round-up of 2021 of What We Did, What We Ate, What We Watched, and What We Read.

What We Did

Advent calendars. These are not for particularly religious reasons, although we religiously buy the cheese advent calendars from Aldi every year. This year, Phil added a gourmet chocolate calendar to my daily ritual and a hot sauce one for our son. The kids also had chocolate calendars from a standholder at Central Market who used to work with Phil. We had a lot of daily surprises from these delicious calendars, and it was a daily delight in an otherwise glum sort of month.

Sick days. Boo. Our daughter was experiencing some COVID-like symptoms, so she stayed home for two days and I stayed with her. On day 2, we went for a rapid COVID test, which was negative. While we waited for the results we played an online game of Monopoly. (I just invented a new word while I was typing: monopology … I’m sorry for the things I said while playing Monopoly.) which spoiler alert reveals that I’m just as competitive with an online game as a physical one. Later in the month, our son wasn’t feeling well and stayed home for a day. Instead of going out and waiting for two hours for a test, we bought an at-home one and did science in our house! (I do not enjoy any of this.)

But, when the fourth member of our family turned 12, he finally got his chance at his COVID vaccine. We went on his birthday. The pharmacist administering the shot said to him: “You’re lucky it’s your birthday, otherwise we give it in the tush.” After I explained what his tush was, our son laughed. Local pharmacies for the win, friends.

Every December our favorite local radio station out of Philadelphia does a countdown of some kind. This year, it was the top 2021 albums of all time as voted on by listeners. We had the radio on A LOT during the week-plus countdown. Stream WXPN online if you’re looking for an eclectic mix of music curated by music lovers.

Coffee with friends.

And dinner with a friend. These sorts of things have been lacking during COVID, for good reason, but I’ve recognized the need to have regular friend interactions in my life. Both of these were uplifting and healing to my stressed-out, weary soul.

Spirit week. Again. This time, holiday-themed and stretching over nine days of school. We wore socks, dressed as movie characters, wore Christmas colors, wore song references, holiday headgear and ugly sweaters, among other things. It wasn’t all bad, but it did require a lot of effort beforehand. 

Proudest of my effort for this costume: lead female character in a made-for-TV Christmas movie

Every year, our school’s Technology Student Association puts on a light show in the parking lot of the middle school. It’s free (donations accepted) and it shows off the hard work students have done programming the light show. It’s amazing and fun. This year was no exception.

Basketball practices started, and our son played one game before Christmas break. He scored a basket and shot a free throw (he missed the free throw) but it was fun to see him out there.

Christmas shopping, So much Christmas shopping. We went to our favorite local businesses and came home with gifts that we were delighted to give. 

On December 24, we flew home to Illinois for Christmas.

We all made it, but one of our bags didn’t, which set off an hours-long waiting game of tracking down the bag. The bag made it on the next flight from Baltimore, but that was two hours behind us. So, we went for lunch with my parents at Portillo’s, then took a walk at a local historic site.

It was a mild day weather-wise for December in Illinois, so it made for a nice change of pace from all the people and bustle.

When we went back to the airport to see if the bag had come in, we discovered that it, indeed, had landed with the plane but had been picked up by another passenger by mistake. So, a very friendly and competent airline attendant tracked down the other passenger by phone and asked them to come back to the airport to retrieve their missing bag and return ours. Because of the fiasco, we missed one of the family gatherings we were supposed to attend. Travel, for us, is never dull.

Two days after Christmas, we were back to the airport to drop Phil off so that he could return to work. The rest of us went shopping in the suburbs so the kids could spend their Christmas money. We ended with a visit to Bass Pro Shops’ Outdoor World, which is a wild experience.

It snowed one day, so we made Christmas cookies.

This is our annual tradition as well, and someday I’ll figure out how to get them made ahead of time and distributed on or by Christmas.

They turned out just like Grandma used to make, which is really the whole point.

Throughout our holiday, we played games with family. These included Can You Name Five?; Smash Up; Taco Cat Goat Cheese Pizza; and We Didn’t Playtest This.

Taco Cat Goat Cheese Pizza is a clear favorite.

My Grandma got to move to a different room in her assisted living facility, so while my parents and aunt and uncle moved her, the kids and I took Grandma out for lunch and a drive. It was an enjoyable couple of hours.

On the last day of the year, the kids and I flew back to Pennsylvania with little to no complications. The airport wasn’t too busy. Our flight was originally going to be delayed a little bit but then was on time. We had a super bumpy flight but we made it (and so did all of our bags!). We reconnected with Phil and drove home. The kids and Phil stayed up till midnight. I turned in hours before that because the day had taken its toll on me.

What We Ate

Sushi. The birthday boy wanted sushi for his birthday meal, so he invited a friend over and we ate a variety of sushi.

Which was followed by Peanut Butter Mud Cake (ice cream cake; he is my son, after all).

For our last small group snack of the season, we made Christmas crack and ranch crackers, both of which we ate too much of and have too much leftover.

It’s still soup season. This month’s soups featured acorn squash soup, potato leek soup, cream of broccoli soup, cabbage, potato and sausage soup; and stuffed pepper soup. I could eat soup every day.

We needed a takeout celebratory meal for Phil’s new job, so we ordered from Awash, a restaurant we haven’t been to in a while. We had a variety of Ethiopian food: meat and vegetarian dishes with the ubiquitous injera (a spongy bread). 

I will admit, it does not look appetizing as takeout, but trust me, it’s delicious.

When I went out with my friend for dinner I had fish tacos from Tied House in Lititz.

Cookies and egg nog are the traditional snack while we watch White Christmas.

As mentioned earlier, we ate Portillo’s while we waited for our delayed bag.

For one of our family gatherings, we had burritos and tacos and other Mexican delights from a local taco joint.

On our shopping day, we went to a place called COVO, Greek street food. It was set up sort of like Chipotle except your choices were pitas, bowls, salads or platters. It was delicious.

Grandma wanted a taco, so we went to Mama Cimino’s, a local restaurant my friend and her husband own and run. We ate a taco, taco salad, pizza and a sampling of fried deliciousness.

And no visit to our hometown is complete without eating food from Arthur’s Garden Deli. Potatoes. Sandwiches. Soups. Highly recommend if you’re ever in northern Illinois, but it might also just be nostalgia.

And then on the way back to the airport, we stopped at a diner near Midway for lunch. It’s an all-day breakfast kind of place (my kind of place!) and if there’s a Benedict option on the menu, I’m ordering it. This was potatoes Benedict: eggs and hollandaise and ham over potato pancakes.

What We Watched

The World According to Jeff Goldblum. A Disney Plus show. Anyone who displays even mild curiosity about the world around them endears me.

Hawkeye. Loved it from the first minute till the last. 

Kim’s Convenience.

Nailed It. We watched an episode with Jack McBrayer, who is rightly labeled a national treasure.

Grantchester, the last episode of season 6. Already looking forward to season 7.

Welcome to Earth hosted by Will Smith on Disney Plus. Intense first episode. I learned, like, 12 things in less than an hour.

Nicole Byer’s comedy special on Netflix. She’s funny on Nailed It, and this one had its moments. Lots of swearing and crude humor, though.

White Christmas. An annual tradition.

All the Queen’s Horses. So, my hometown is the same town that was swindled out of $53 million over 20 years by a city employee. This documentary on Prime (previously on Netflix) is all about the woman who committed this egregious crime and how the city uncovered it and recovered from it. Fascinating and depressing all at the same time.

Judge Judy. And a variety of other daytime television we never see, but Judge Judy has quickly become our son’s favorite.

What We Read

Adorning the Dark by Andrew Peterson. I actually started this in November but forgot to add it last month. I need some words about writing every now and then, and I respect Peterson as a songwriter and author. I’m slowly working my way through this one.

Good Kings, Bad Kings by Susan Nussbaum. A few months ago I was looking for books featuring disabled characters or addressing disability issues, and my sister-in-law sent me a link to a disabled book reviewer who gave their critique and opinions on a variety of such books. This was one the reviewer thought was worthwhile. Its characters are all people who either live in or work at an institution for disabled youth, and it was sometimes hard to read because I know the circumstances are ones actually faced by people living in institutions. Fiction is a powerful method to bring awareness to topics like these.

Spy Ski School by Stuart Gibbs. Reading aloud with my kids. I’m hooked on these books.

The Sweeney Sisters by Lian Dolan. A heart-warming, authentic family drama. I’ve got some good recommendations coming in from friends and this was one of them.

Darius the Great is Not Okay by Adib Khorram. I bought this one at a book sale at the school last year. YA is such an amazing genre for getting to know the characters well.

Murder in the Dark by Kerry Greenwood. A Phryne Fisher Christmas/New Year’s story. How appropriate!

How The Light Gets In by Louise Penny. Such a work of genius. It’s a mystery, of course, but I didn’t know who to trust at any point of the story and I was shocked by how it all turned out.

When I Was The Greatest by Jason Reynolds. After hearing him speak on a podcast, I went searching for more of his work at the library. This was another one that allowed me to see into a way of life I’m not familiar with.

Future Home of the Living God by Louise Erdrich. I pulled this one off a display at the library when they were featuring Native authors. It was odd reading a dystopian story during a pandemic that’s lingering and wavering in intensity. But it was interesting writing and I want to read more Native authors.

When Calls the Heart by Jeanette Oke. So, I’ve seen every episode of the show through season 8, and I was curious about the books. I needed a quick read when I was between books on holiday, and this certainly fit that bill. But I found it shallow and lacking in plot. I might still read the rest of the series, though. Sometimes I am a glutton for punishment and even reading a not-great book is better than not reading at all. 

Go Tell the Bees That I Am Gone by Diana Gabaldon. Finally digging into this behemoth of a book, taking my time, savoring the words of this ninth story in the Outlander series. I want to go back and re-read the first eight but I couldn’t wait to pick up the story again.

Filed Under: holidays, monthly roundup Tagged With: advent calendars, covid tests, home for christmas, spirit week, vaccines

Was it just me or did November fly?

December 1, 2021

November was a whole vibe. Until about the last week of the month, it felt like a giant blob of nothingness, then all of a sudden it was full steam ahead. I keep these records for me and our family because I like to remember all the things we’ve done, the special and ordinary moments we have each month. My day-to-day memory is terrible in the midst of stress and other difficulties. This month, while talking to a friend, I forgot that our family went to Illinois for part of our summer break. Because the pandemic has me questioning all of time. Anyway, if you get some enjoyment out of our ordinary lives, great. If not, I probably won’t stop. 🙂 Here’s our November round-up of What We Did, What We Ate, What We Watched and What We Read.

What We Did

Early in the month, I got my COVID booster shot. I went in at 3 p.m. on Friday, was in bed by 8 p.m. and slept till almost 7 a.m. the next day. I woke up,  read till 8:30 a.m., took 2 naps, and slept for another 10 hours that night. By Sunday I was back to normal. This was a huge difference from my first shot back in March, so I was pleased.

Phil took the kids to Central Market on the Saturday morning after I got my booster shot. In addition to the vegetables and fruit we needed for the week, he bought them coffee drinks and pastries. (!) The next Saturday, I asked if I could go with or if the kids wanted it to just be a dad thing. There was no strong feeling one way or the other, so we all went and had coffees and bagels or muffins. This has become a regular Saturday practice for us, at least until basketball games start.

Speaking of basketball, our son had his basketball evaluation. for the winter rec league season. He’s excited to get started.

Months ago, tickets went on sale for a local theater production called Emma, the Matchmaker. I had wanted to go the last time it was offered but wasn’t comfortable going by myself since Phil usually works on the nights it was offered. This time around, I decided to go for it because I’m trying to live my life the way I want to live it. I want to do the things I want to do while I have the chance. So, on a Friday night, I took myself on a date to this production staged in a late-18th-century plantation house. The audience followed the actors through four rooms and a hallway of the house, and it was delightful. Plus, Emma is my favorite of Jane Austen’s works because while I swoon for Mr. Darcy in Pride and Prejudice, Mr. Knightley is the Austen hero I would choose to spend a life with. I’ve missed local theater. I love creativity in all forms. I needed to do this for me. 

Phil and I woke up at 3:45 one morning to go outside and see a lunar eclipse. It was cloudy but we caught small glimpses of the phenomenon. I love eclipses and celestial phenomena of all kinds. Worth it.

ExtraGive, Lancaster’s biggest day of giving. Every year, no matter what our financial state, we give to community organizations on this ginormous day of giving. It always restores my faith in humanity.

Saturday morning walk with Phil while the kids were at a rehearsal for church. We hadn’t been in the woods together since the incident at the end of September. We took a flat, paved path in a suburban neighborhood, but it was beautiful.  And it’s nice to have to time to finish a conversation without interruptions from a highly opinionated teenager and pre-teenager.

Youth service at church. Our kids participated in this annual event. I loved seeing their creativity come through.

An Outlander Celebration, online book release party for the 9th book in the Outlander series. I’ve only been an Outlander fan for a couple of years, but what I lack in longevity, I make up for with enthusiasm.

Haircuts. Long overdue. So fresh. I feel like a different person.

Turkey trot. I ran it by myself. It was my first in-person race in more than two years, and while I didn’t break any personal records, I was just glad to get out there and do it and finish. It was encouraging.

A Longwood Christmas at Longwood Gardens. We used our membership to attend this popular event on Thanksgiving Day. Maybe that wasn’t the best choice, but it was the day that had the most tickets available when we were looking. It’s a magical spectacle. Super crowded. But I’m glad we went.

On Black Friday, we headed to the Christmas tree farm to cut down our tree for the year. This is the first time in years that we’ve gone to the farm to cut down a tree. 

We had friends over for dinner during our long break for Thanksgiving. We played a couple of board games/card games–CodeNames and Icons–after dinner. It was a fun reminder that we love to have people in our house and should do more of that.

Braces. Our daughter got braces on the last day of our Thanksgiving break. She’s the first in our family to have them, and the first few days were a rough ride. It’s going to be a long year.

And on the very last day of the month, Phil started his new job. What a long six weeks it was.

What We Ate

Soup! It’s at least a once-a-week menu item in the fall and winter. This month we made: Butternut squash soup. Egg drop soup. and Ham and bean soup. 

Squash bread. Phil made his signature bread to take as our snack offering for small group, and our friends ate it up without asking questions. 🙂

Fish pie. I keep forgetting to take pictures of our food because we eat it when it’s hot. This is like chicken pot pie or shepherd’s pie, but with fish as the meat.

This amazing breakfast sandwich from Farm2Table at Lancaster Central Market. I wasn’t feeling bagels when we went the Saturday before Thanksgiving. A good breakfast sandwich is my jam.

Klondike bars. For nostalgia and introducing the kids to treats of yesteryear.

Salted caramel pop-tarts. Um, what? These are better than I expected. Phil bought pop-tarts as breakfast treat for Thanksgiving morning.

Thanksgiving Day: Baltimore pit beef sandwiches, fingerling potatoes, green bean casserole, pumpkin bars (our go-to fall dessert). We don’t always do the traditional turkey on Thanksgiving, especially if it’s just going to be the four of us.

But, on the day after Thanksgiving, we did do a more traditional meal: smoked turkey breast, homemade stuffing, mashed purple sweet potatoes, maple-mustard glazed brussels sprouts. All delish.

For our dinner guests, we made Swedish meatballs from a recipe my aunt gave me years ago. Yum.

What We Watched

LegoMasters. We finished. Whew. What a ride. 

Saturday Night Live clips. Small doses of television guaranteed to make me laugh. I have loved sketch comedy for most of my life.

Kim’s Convenience. A few episodes here and there.

What If …? Episodes 3, 4 and 5 were hard to watch. But we finished the series and feel pretty good about how it ended.

Grantchester. 

Jungle Cruise. A bit hokey. Some good jokes. Plus THE ROCK. I had some issues with the ending, but it’s Disney, so I guess I can’t really expect anything different.

Paul Blart: Mall Cop. Our son is a member of the 6th-grade safety patrol for his bus, so we often call him a bus cop. We thought it was necessary for him to see this movie. It did not disappoint for him.

Over the Hedge. This was another one for our son’s sake because he’s like Hammy the Squirrel. We had lots of laughs.

The World According to Jeff Goldblum. Phil and I found this series on Disney Plus and it’s delightful because Jeff Goldblum is quirky, curious and childlike.

Shang-Chi and the Legend of the Ten Rings. Okay, this might be my all-time favorite Marvel movie. And it’s hard to go back to watching Simu Liu in Kim’s Convenience after seeing him in this

What We Read

Jesus and John Wayne, book club, continued. We got so tired of talking about the same things every week that we finally decided to just finish the book once and for all and talk about it once. I finished it. I need a spiritual palate cleanser now because I just feel icky.

Death by Water by Kerry Greenwood. More Phryne Fisher. I won’t apologize.

Evil Spy School by Stuart Gibbs. I love reading this series together with my kids, and I enjoy the story and characters, too.

Darius the Great is Not Okay by Adib Khorram. I bought this one at a book fair last year. The main character is an American-born high school boy with Persian parents. They have to make a trip to Iran to visit family. Darius wrestles with his identity as a “fractional Persian”–his mom was born in Iran, his dad is American, he was born in America–and it’s honest and compelling. 

Temptation Ridge by Robyn Carr. Yep, it’s back to Virgin River for me. I want to keep knowing about the characters but some of the writing is starting to annoy me. How long until the series returns on Netflix?

A Rogue of One’s Own by Evie Dunmore. Book 2 in the League of Extraordinary Women series.

The Absolutely True Diary of a Part-Time Indian by Sherman Alexie. This is one of those “classics” I missed. I love YA literature because of the way its authors write POV. I underlined some things in this one that I absolutely loved. I understand there are some personal issues with the author. Still, I think this is a valuable read.

Portrait of a Scotsman by Evie Dunmore. Book 3 in the League of Extraordinary Women series. This one was my favorite. This whole series is so unique and compelling.

The Beautiful Mystery by Louise Penny. Another unforgettable Inspector Gamache novel. Usually I take some time before grabbing the next one in the series, but the way this one ended had me checking out the next one immediately from the library.

Paradise Valley by Robyn Carr. Okay, I might need a break from the Virgin River book series.

Spy Ski School by Stuart Gibbs. We started this one at the end of the month.

Filed Under: holidays, monthly roundup Tagged With: Longwood Gardens, november, soup season, turkey trot

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