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Wrapping the end of summer: Our monthly round-up

September 6, 2022

Honestly, I thought September would never get here. August felt like a really long month. Here’s our monthly round-up of What We Did, What We Ate, What We Watched and What We Read. (Spoilers: it was A LOT about food this month.)

What We Did

Band camp. One night I helped with uniform fittings, so it was fun to meet some of our daughter’s fellow band members.

Backyard book club get-together. We brought our own dinner and just hung out in person. (Book club takes a break for the summer.)

I gave blood again, this time without any embarrassment. 

My son and I took a day trip to Cupboard Maker Books in Enola, PA. They have cats! And books. But cats! We enjoyed our adventure.

I am in LOVE with independent bookstores

Lititz Craft show. A nearby town has a huge craft show. We wandered through a small portion of it and were there to visit a friend who had a booth. It was a fun outing.

Our daughter wanted to see her friend perform in a musical put on by Servant Stage, a local theater company that offers pay-what-you-will shows. This one was Rock Around the Clock, a musical medley from the 50s and 60s mostly. It was a toe-tapping good time.

Girls’ night!

A couple more Long’s Park Music concerts: Terrance Simien and The Zydeco Experience is basically a party in the park. So upbeat and fun.

Try to stay still while listening to zydeco, I dare you

And the last concert of the season was Devon Gilfillian, a Philly native whose renown is on the rise.

He put on a great show, and his merch offered a cat T-shirt that our son just had to have. So, we stuck around for autographs and a CD purchase and it turns out Devon and his band are beautiful human beings as well. Such a great unofficial end of summer.

He made our kids’ night!

After finishing my freelance project, I broke out the Jane Austen puzzle, which put me in the mood for reading historical fiction.

Such a dreamy puzzle

We had a Friday night hangout in Lititz with some of our small group friends. We browsed the record store (Lititz Record Co.), went to the bookstore (Aaron’s) then grabbed ice cream at Greco’s. We love our small group so much and miss them when we’re on a break so hanging out is fun.

Phil’s birthday! He decided he wanted to do something fun and a little bit out of the ordinary for us, so we went to a go-cart track.

This is my attempt to take one of those cool selfies from inside the go-cart.

Because Phil wore the family birthday sash, he got the fastest car and we all got a little bit of extra time. It was surprisingly more fun than I thought it would be. It was a hot day so we followed up with slushies from Sheetz.

After almost 3 years, we finally made it back to Washington, D.C. and it was for a very good reason: Hamilton!! At the Kennedy Center!

Another just-us-girls event

Two years ago, Phil bought me tickets for my birthday, and then Covid canceled the show and this year was our first opportunity for take two. Our daughter paid her way to see the show with me since in the last two years, she’s become a Hamilton junkie, too. It was everything I hoped it would be and more. Even though we’ve seen the recorded performance on Disney Plus, there’s something magical about being in the room for live theater.

The interior of the Kennedy Center is GORGE!

I laughed. I cried. I had goosebumps every time a song started. A dream come true.

While we were at the show, the boys went to the United States Botanical Garden near the Capitol. Highlights for them included: “Big Mike,” the banana variety from which all artificial banana flavors are derived; a Venus flytrap; and the tropical section. I’m not jealous we didn’t get to go this time, but I do want to go sometime.

First Day of School. The girl went to high school. The boy started middle school virtually. It’s a long story, and it’s a weird way to start the year.

They posed like this on purpose. Also, who are these giants that live in my house?

Nintendo Switch Sports and other video games. The boy had half days of virtual school which left us some afternoons to hone our gaming skills.

First high school football game of the year. Our daughter is in marching band, so we’re supporting her (and entertaining our son, who loves watching football) by going to games.

A four-mile hike with our church at Kellys Run Nature Preserve. It was beautiful and challenging. I fell in the creek, but no regrets.

If you told me fairies lived here, I would believe you

What We Ate

A bing wrap (scallion pancake burrito thing) and sweet potato fries from Silantra Asian Kitchen for our bring-your-own takeout backyard hangout with book club. I was so hungry, I forgot to take a picture.

Sandwiches from Route 66 diner. Phil took our son out to lunch while running errands one day so I could have some time to work at home and because he wanted to.

Non-alcoholic beer from Athletic Brewing Co. Yes, this is technically a drink, but it’s an important addition to our month.

We have a bunch of varieties to try, which excites me.

Phil and I both are taking medications that prevent us from drinking alcohol right now, and we both miss beer a little bit, so we tried out some offerings from this company and for near-beer, they’re quite good. I’m one of those weird people who actually likes the taste of alcohol so to drink it without the effects is okay by me.

Jambalaya. We took it to the park for the Zydeco music night and then ate it all week because apparently you can’t make just a little bit of jambalaya.

Was it jambalaya? Was it gumbo? I need to learn the difference.

Ice cream. I took no pictures but we had some unique flavors.

Cake! A Costco cake to share with our fellow family ministries’ volunteers at church on Phil’s birthday.

Mexican food from El Paisano, a food truck on the west side of Lancaster.

Phil chose this for his birthday. It was filling and affordable.

Chimichanga used to be my go-to order. This is by far the best one I’ve ever eaten.

College Park Diner. Our stop after our DC day where we all had something delicious. Diner food rarely disappoints.

Breakfast–a LOT of breakfast–for dinner

Our back-to-school week meals included some new favorites: jalapeño tuna noodle casserole; ultimate 7-layer dip; noodle bowls (it’s a soup).

Ultimate 7-Layer Dip
Noodle bowl packed full of veggies

I got a jump on meal planning using the cookbooks in our house and these were some of the highlights.

Philly Cheesesteak pizza.

Mmm…

I love our son’s creativity and this was delicious. It came together better than I thought it would.

What We Watched

Because the kids are older, we’ve started introducing them to more of the movies Phil and I watched in our younger years. This month, those included Happy Gilmore, Men in Black, and Talladega Nights, all for the subtle and not-so-subtle comedy. We also watched the new movie Uncharted, which is based on a video game and was not the best movie ever made.

Together on the streams, we’ve watched episodes of Is It Cake? (still funny and the tension is increasing); Phineas and Ferb (now I know where “doofenshmirtz” comes from); Richard Osman’s House of Games (British game show); Press Your Luck (the reboot; it’s so stressful watching people gamble away money they’ve earned but didn’t have when they walked onto the set); Generation Gap (boomers and their grandkids or grand-nieces and nephews see what they know about each other’s generations. As a Gen X’er, I know a lot about both); and The Simpsons (Our son was curious. He likes it.).

We also viewed The Barkley Marathons, a documentary about this redonkulous ultramarathon trail run held annually in Tennessee. I read about it in The Empathy Exams (see below) then we talked about it while hiking and Phil had watched it, so we watched it the same night. 

On my own, I watched Grace and Frankie.

Phil and I are still logging episodes of Arrested Development. It was kind of a busy month with some later nights for the kids, so we didn’t do a lot of adults-only viewing. Plus, there’s always sports for Phil and books for me.

What We Read

Speaking of books … I wrapped up my freelance reading project which meant I devoured library books and books in my house.

The ones I finished were:

The Unhiding of Eljah Campbell by Kelly Flanagan. Kelly and I went to school together. He’s written some life-altering non-fiction and this is his first novel, releasing in October. You can see what I said about it here (link to Instagram).

The Two Towers by J.R.R. Tolkien. I did it! I finished the second volume. It was a slog in parts. I’m taking a break before I finish the series.

Second First Impressions by Sally Thorne. Literally pulled this one off the library shelf based on the cover. Stayed because of the premise. Thought it was funny and heart-warming. 

The Jasmine Project by Meredith Ireland. I follow this writer on Twitter because she’s so candid and funny about the writing life. This is her debut YA and it’s like what would happen if a multi-racial family decided to host a “Bachelorette” type competition for their recently dumped family member (Jasmine) without her knowing. I think I’m in a women-realizing-their-worth phase right now. Both this one and Second First Impressions had that going for them.

The Readers of Broken Wheel Recommend by Katarina Bivald. While shopping at a used bookstore, I pulled this one off the shelf because of the title. (I’m susceptible to books about books, bookstores, reading and writing.) And I ended up really liking it. Here’s what I said about it after I finished. (link to Instagram)

The Greatest Beer Run Ever by John “Chick” Donohue and J.T. Molloy. An ad for this movie came on during something we were watching, and at first I thought it was for a ridiculous buddy comedy, but it turns out, it’s based on a true story and there’s a book! Chick Donohue, at the urging of a bar owner in his NYC neighborhood, used his merchant marine credentials to hitch a ride to Vietnam during the war to bring beer and good tidings to guys from the neighborhood. It’s a truth-is-stranger-than-fiction kind of story and so intriguing. I’m interested in the movie now.

The Empathy Exams by Leslie Jamison. I don’t know where I heard about this book but I’m doing some research on empathy and kindness. This is a book of essays and some were more interesting to me than others. (Like the one about The Barkley Marathons, this ultra race in Tennessee that’s Wild (capital W intended). 

Books in progress: 

The Queen’s Fortune by Alison Pataki.

With the kids:

Spy School Revolution by Stuart Gibbs. We finished this one and have only two more in the series before we’re caught up! What?!?

We rolled right into book 9 in the series, Spy School At Sea.

Filed Under: monthly roundup, Summer Tagged With: back-to-school, band camp, birthday celebration, cupboard maker books, go-cart, hamilton in dc, meal planning, servant stage

Nut burgers, vaccines, and Endgame: March was a long month

April 2, 2021

Was March long because it has three more days than February, or did it feel long because we passed the one-year anniversary of shutdowns due to COVID? Yes? Anyway, I felt like March was kind of blah when it comes to how we spent our days, but some important things happened and I don’t want to overlook those. So, here’s our monthly round-up of what we did, what we ate, what we watched and what we read.

What We Did

Two more virtual adventures, this time to Montana and Croatia.

One and done.

Got vaccinated. Phil got his second vaccine and I was able to get my one shot of the Johnson and Johnson vaccine as part of the push to get educators vaccinated. I took an evening appointment and drove to the vaccination site five minutes from my house and in a total of less than 40 minutes, I was vaccinated. (I had to be in the high-risk observation group for 30 minutes because apparently I checked a “not sure” box on my registration when I filled it out at 5 a.m. a few days before my appointment.) 

Because of the availability of vaccine appointments, our school district scheduled two virtual school days where the kids are on their own to do the work assigned by their teachers, so on the heels of my vaccine appointment, we had two virtual school days.

The first of those days was our daughter’s 13th birthday. I spent most of it resting, alternating between the couch and my bed. I napped. A lot. For me. I usually never nap, so even one short nap a day is a lot and for several days after the vaccine, I took at least one nap a day.

He insisted on taking a picture with his sister on her birthday, trying to prove that he’s as tall or taller than her.

The girl delivered cupcakes to her friends throughout the school district and hosted a Zoom call so they could eat them together and chat on a non-school day. It’s the best we can do for a pandemic birthday party. (This is already her second pandemic birthday, poor thing.)

Toward the end of the month, I paid off my credit card for the first time–I think–in our married life. This credit card was our “emergency fund” for a lot of years, and this year I set a goal to pay it off. Stimulus money helped to speed that goal along, and I feel a great relief to have it gone.

My haul from the bookstore trip

On another virtual instruction day, I took my daughter to the bookstore. I had a couple of books to pick up that I had ordered. We walked out with four more. Then she spent her Starbucks gift card on a refreshing drink on the way home.

Attended our first lacrosse game, a Saturday scrimmage on a beautiful day. I’m grateful that we don’t have Saturday games regularly, but this was a joy to watch, even if the score was one-sided and not in our team’s favor.

What We Ate

I don’t know if I would choose this again.

For our virtual adventure to Montana, we made nut burgers, which apparently is a delicacy in Butte, Montana. It’s a hamburger topped with mayo mixed with crushed peanuts. The website where we found the recipe said some people love it, others don’t care for it but nobody hates it. This is accurate.

I ate this almost every day for a week. No regrets.

We also ate Dalmatian Pasta Fazol for our Croatian virtual adventure. This pasta soup (I guess it’s kind of a soup) has pinto beans and a garlicky broth. We had A LOT of leftovers, but I wasn’t sorry.

Not bad for a first attempt

Our son added to his Saturday menu rotation. The latest dish is spaghetti and meatballs with garlic knots. So, we attempted homemade garlic knots. I’m not great with yeast doughs, so I found a no-yeast recipe that turned out pretty well.

I requested individual packaging for the deliveries and Lancaster Cupcake did not disappoint.

To celebrate our daughter’s birthday we had double chocolate chip cupcakes from Lancaster Cupcake, our award-winning local bakery. Here’s the description: Chocolate cake with a cookie dough filling, cookie frosting, and a fudge drizzle with cookie dough pieces on top. YUM! It was as delicious as it sounds.

Apparently this is the only picture my camera saved from the meal.

She also chose Italian food from a local place called Fiorentino’s for her birthday dinner. Our usual place, we discovered, is closed on Sundays. We are not sorry. Our son had an individual pizza that came in a box with faux newspaper that felt very New York-y. Daughter had baked lasagna and gouda mac-n-cheese bites. Phil had a meatball sub with onion rings. I had a meatball Caesar salad with eggplant fries. All delicious.

All the required elements for March 17

Of course, we had corned beef with cabbage, potatoes and carrots, and brown bread for St. Patrick’s Day.

The kids and I got takeout from Gracie’s on West Main on our way back from the scrimmage. Daughter had a stuffed burrito. Son had a hamburger. I had a omelet with home fries.

Veggie pad Thai

Birthdays don’t count for our once-a-month takeout in support of local businesses, so we had Thai food on the final Sunday of March from Ploya Thai Kitchen. Son likes orange chicken, which was on the menu. (We have so many Thai places to choose from in our area!) Daughter and I both had a form of Pad Thai (mine was veggie, hers was crispy chicken). Phil had drunken noodles that he ordered spicier than he expected, but he likes it that way.

What We Watched

Movies

Ant-Man and the Wasp. There need to be more Paul Rudd movies in the world. He is one of my absolute favorites and if he’s ever revealed to be a dirt bag, I will cry real tears.

Captain Marvel. Whoa. If you’re uncomfortable with trauma and healing from trauma and deep searching for your identity then don’t watch this. Phil and I had never seen this one so watching it for the first time with the kids was almost overwhelming. But 90s music? And a woman learning to live in freedom out of who she really is? What is not to like?

Avengers: Endgame. So much to process. I hadn’t forgotten how hard the movie was, but I had sort of forgotten how brilliant it is. And I think I appreciated it all so much more because we’ve so recently watched all the movies so the character arcs were more obvious to me.

Shows we finished

The Crown. I finished season 4 and I have A LOT of feelings. Like a lot of little girls who grew up in the ’80s, I was a bit obsessed with Princess Diana and completely devastated by her death. Watching this season of The Crown, in which Diana and Charles’ relationship is featured, left me with renewed grief and anger. I know that it is a fictional TV show based on real people and events, so all of it may not be true and some of it may be embellished. But I still think it’s sad that an institution like the monarchy broke a woman like Diana and seemingly hasn’t learned its lesson. (See: Meghan Markle.) Am I less enamored of the Royal Family now? Yes. Will I still drink tea out of my William and Kate tea cup? Also, yes.

Schitt’s Creek. We finished it. I wasn’t ready. I have questions. I’m going to need several spin-offs to satisfy my questions. But my brother says good stories have good endings and no spin-offs are needed. (I just don’t want it to end!)

Grantchester. We’re caught up! Finished season 5 and waiting for season 6 like everyone else.

Shows we started

Cheer, the docuseries on Netflix about competitive cheerleading. Lots of people were watching this last year at the start of quarantine. I did not. One night I was needing something to put on the TV that required less of my active attention, so I gave it a try. It’s, um, interesting.

Nailed It! The kids and I love this show and were excited to see its return. It’s also interesting to see the kinds of COVID measures they’ve taken to produce the show.

Space Force. This series co-created by Steve Carell and Greg Daniels is subtly funny so far. Worth a watch if you love the kind of humor found on The Office.

Poldark, season 5. Ugh. I don’t love it so far. The series has departed from the book plots and while this isn’t the sort of thing that would always bother me, for some reason, it does with this show.

Shows in progress

Call the Midwife. I’ve been slowly working my way through this series for years. It’s equally heart-breaking and uplifting, but I love the characters.

Men in Kilts. We’ve enjoyed exploring Scotland with Sam and Graham.

And speaking of travel …

Travel shows

We always watch at least one video to accompany our virtual adventure. We watched a PBS documentary about Montana, and it’s amazing how little I know about some states in our country.

For our Croatia virtual adventure we watched a Rudy Maxa travel documentary and an episode of Bare Feet. There are a wealth of travel shows out there. Since we started doing virtual adventures last year, we haven’t completely struck out on finding a show to take us–virtually–to the place we’re interested in.

Footloose in Madeira with David and Debra Rixen. I’m not sure when we discovered these travel documentaries but they are delightful and feed my travel bug. The Rixens have probably a dozen travel documentaries on Amazon Prime. They are a calm sort of travel show. This one made me want some wine. And to travel to an island.

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We also watched part of the interview between Oprah and Prince Harry and Meghan Markle early in the month. What I saw was enough to make me sad and angry, especially since I was watching the fourth season of The Crown at the time.

A lot of nights, we watch an episode or two of Good Mythical Morning on YouTube. Phil’s brother introduced us to Rhett and Link. I don’t love every episode we watch, but they do have some interesting content.

What We Read

Truman by David McCullough. Ugh. I’m learning a lot but it’s taking such.a.long.time.

Breathing Under Water by Richard Rohr. I continued with this for my Lenten reading. It will take me past Easter to finish.

Romancing Mr. Bridgerton by Julia Quinn. Book 4 in the Bridgerton series, and my favorite so far.

Death Before Wicket by Kerry Greenwood. Not my favorite Phryne Fisher mystery. But this was fairly quickly followed by …

Murder in Montparnasse by Kerry Greenwood. This was my favorite of the 12 books in the series so far.

The Cruelest Month by Louise Penny. I wait MONTHS for these books in the Inspector Gamache series to be available. This one arrived at the perfect time. Inspector Gamache could travel to Three Pines and find lost eyeglasses or missing kittens and I would still want to read.

How Not to Be Afraid: Seven Ways to Live When Everything Seems Terrifying by Gareth Higgins. Rarely do I tear open the mail and start reading a book immediately, but I did so with this one because I don’t know about you, but I NEED what’s in this book right now. A full review will follow in April, when the book releases.

I finished reading Monster by Walter Dean Myers, a book one of the English classes at school is reading. I’m a new fan of Myers’ work and this one is a creative way to tell the story of a trial for a juvenile charged with felony murder.

Also for school, I finished reading The Adventures of Ulysses by Bernard Evslin. I read this a few years ago because some students were reading it, but I think I enjoyed it more this time because I did some reading aloud with students.

Speak by Laurie Halse Anderson. This is our next book club book. I’ve read it before, but it’s always good to read and discuss with a group. Still powerful the second time around.

I snapped this pic of him without his knowledge. It’s the only time he sits still without a screen.

Our son’s teacher introduced him to the Theodore Boone books by John Grisham. They read the first book together in class. He has since read the second and third books in the series. Book 4 is on hold at the library.

We read Stick Dog Meets His Match out loud together at bedtime.

Then we moved on to re-reading The Bad Guys books because we have two new ones and we wanted to revisit the previous books. We’re about halfway through the series.

Our daughter read The Unwanteds by Lisa McMann and Percy Jackson and the Lightning Thief by Rick Riordan. She is newly obsessed with Percy Jackson books and loved The Unwanteds so much that she requested a bunch of the books in the series. She also read a book called Teen Trailblazers: 30 Fearless Girls Who Changed the World Before They Were 20, a birthday gift from a teacher friend of mine.

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Whew. There it is. March in a round-up.

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