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Beauty on the Backroads

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Saturday Smiles: Vacation style edition

January 5, 2013

Our “vacations” are seldom exotic. I mean, come on, we were raised in Illinois and that’s where most of our time away happens. But we do our best to keep it interesting.

Our week started with an overnight drive on New Year’s Eve, which I initially thought was a crazy idea but turned out okay. Especially when we could say it took us TWO YEARS to get home. (What can I say? We’re easily amused. Even more so when we’re sleep deprived. More on that later.)

New Year’s Day was a blur for me because I napped for an entire morning. (Oh, that brings a smile to my face. Naps are so rare for me. Three hours of uninterrupted sleep in the middle of the day. Heaven.) Later we were introduced to Duck Dynasty (seriously, I’ve never laughed so hard in my life. We’ve added this to our personal must-see TV list) and cracked up every time my mom mentioned Pinterest. (She was off work for a week without the grandkids to keep her occupied, so she had some Internet surfing time.) To her credit, we have eaten some delicious food she found on Pinterest. (But it’s weird when one of your parents gets comfortable with social media.)

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAWednesday was Christmas Rewind day as our kids opened their presents from grandparents and great-grandparents. We are now the proud owners of a Barbie beach house and Barbie convertible as well as an entire fleet of Coast Guard rescue vehicles and men. And a train set. I’m thinking we should have given away all our kids’ toys before we left home because I have NO IDEA where this stuff is going to go.

My grandma made our son an orange afghan (orange is his favorite color) and after we told him she made it, he asked of every other present, “Did you make this?”

I’m thinking our family will have this exchange at family gatherings from now on: “Did you make this?” “Yes, I found it on Pinterest.” (It was a lot funnier when I hadn’t had much sleep.)

Also, this might be my most favorite picture of the whole year, no matter what else happens.

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Phil and I took Thursday and Friday to get out of town. We used some hotel points for a free night’s stay and headed up to Lake County, north of the city (that’s Chicago, the greatest city in the world, as we like to say).

On the way up we ate here.

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This deli/cafe is legendary in my husband’s family. His maternal side is German, so authentic German food is a big deal. I had beef goulash with spaetzle (best egg noodles on the planet) and red cabbage. Phil had a sausage platter with three different kinds, and a side of sauerkraut. I’ve never been a big fan of sauerkraut, but I can stomach a taste of it now and then. It was fun to–finally–experience this with him. We’ve been talking about it for a long time.

We spent some time at the Gurnee Mills Mall, something neither of us had done in years. We played the $5 game, where we can only buy one thing for ourselves and it has to be about $5. Phil got this sweet hat. OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA

Just in time for the playoffs. Or next season. I bought some blank canvas material for a yet-to-be-determined creative project I need to complete this month. We ate Oberwies ice cream while watching Elementary in real time. (Usually we have to watch it a day or two later.)

Our getaway also included two visits to a monastery/chapel/shrine. We are not Catholic but were intrigued by the artwork and experience of visiting. We stopped there on the way to our hotel and felt a little bit lost and intrusive. We decided to go back the next day so I could take some notes and jot some thoughts and we could spend a little more time there. (I plan to write about this more later this month.) It was an inspiring and thought-provoking visit.

We met my brother for lunch at a historic roundhouse in Aurora. (Our 3-year-old was pretty jazzed to be eating lunch at a train station.)

OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERAThen the kids got to stop at a train park on the way back to our vacation headquarters.

Spending time with family is always a highlight of our trips home and we’ve done plenty of that. And the best part of all: we still have another week of visiting and fun!

Filed Under: food, holidays, Saturday smiles Tagged With: catholic shrine, christmas, family visits, German food, gurnee mills mall, holidays, kuhn's deli, marytown, vacation

Saturday smiles: So this is Christmas edition

December 29, 2012

I’ll admit, I was not terribly looking forward to Christmas this year. It was the first time–ever–that I haven’t been with my extended family for Christmas, and only the second time (the first time being when he was in Iraq) that my husband has missed his family’s get-togethers.

Needless to say, we were both a little bummed at the way things have worked out this year. By next week, we’ll be home for “the holidays,” or what’s left of them.

So I was surprised at how good our Christmas was. It started on Sunday with our annual “White Christmas” viewing complete with cookies and egg nog. Our son wholeheartedly embraced the eggnog tradition, proclaiming it a better drink than hot chocolate and our daughter was inspired by the dance moves and twirled and tapped her way through the living room for two days.OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA

Then on Christmas Eve, we attended our church’s candlelight and communion service, the first time we’ve been able to attend it because we’re usually at our home church in Illinois on Christmas Eve. It was lovely and inspiring and I found myself blessed and joyful in spite of how I was feeling earlier in the day. And our daughter took communion for the first time. It wasn’t something we planned, but we talked with her about it and later she told us: “The bread is Jesus’ body. The juice is his blood. And he died.” That pretty much sums it up. We have further reason to nurture her faith.

My husband and I did the whole put the kids to bed and then wrap presents and play Santa gig. We have a new appreciation for what our parents endured all those years.

And it was all worth it for the joy of Christmas morning. OLYMPUS DIGITAL CAMERA

Even though most of what “Santa” brought the kids was toys we had in the attic that other people have given us, the kids were thrilled. “Santa brought us so much stuff!” our 3-year-old son repeated. We spent the rest of the morning in our jammies, watching the kids play with Barbies and Ninja Turtles. We video called with the grandparents then headed over the river (there was no river; more like a mountain) and through the woods (it is sort of wooded) to our friends’ house for Christmas dinner. What an enjoyable time we had there! Later we collapsed into Christmas exhaustion and welcomed a snow/ice storm the next day.

In the days after Christmas, we have eaten too many Christmas cookies, and I, personally, have indulged in more coffee than is probably healthy. We are packing and preparing for a trip west to see family and friends. And hoping for better days to come in the new year. And if not better days, then better attitudes to face whatever the days may bring.

Christmas blessings to you, all.

Filed Under: holidays, Saturday smiles Tagged With: christmas, christmas eve, communion, new year, santa

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