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Beauty on the Backroads

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Endings and beginnings … plus soup: A November wrap-up

December 1, 2022

November continued to be a blur of kids’ activities but we managed to squeeze in some family fun and good food. If you’re into theater, soups, streaming shows and a variety of books, then keep scrolling to read the details of our month.

What We Did

The school held a bonfire in the first week of the month. It’s their annual fall gathering, and it’s more like bringing a bunch of kids and parents and staff together in an open field where they’re selling concessions and it’s a bit of a free-for-all. I worked the band concession stand so I didn’t get to see much of the actual bonfire, but it was a fun time. Oh, and there were fireworks.

One sports season wrapped up with a soccer tournament early in the month and another sport began with basketball tryouts near the end of the month. While our son didn’t make the middle school team, he is still going to play basketball in the rec league.

Marching band also wrapped up with championships in Hershey and a banquet at a local country club.

This was what our Fridays and Saturdays often looked like this fall.

We fancied ourselves up for the banquet.

Puffs! Our daughter was in the fall play, which was based on a very popular set of books that feature a boy who lived and attended a school of magic for 7 years. It was an enjoyable show.

Photo by Lifetouch

Youth Sunday. Our son participated in the Youth Sunday service, an annual event at our church.

I donated blood again. And nearly passed out again. But I pushed through. I’m learning about what it takes for my body to handle this kind of thing.

The kids and I had a week off for Thanksgiving. I did some organizing and cleaning projects. We also attended the Mayor’s Tree Lighting in downtown Lancaster on the Friday after Thanksgiving. It’s such a fun gathering and really kicks off the holiday season.

I wanted to spend some of the week off in nature, so Phil and I took a hike at Ferncliff Preserve, just the two of us, which was needed time together. Our life has revolved around work and the kids of late, which has left us without much time or energy for each other.

And on the last day of the month, some of my book club friends went out to celebrate a birthday. We had dinner and drinks at Decades, a local establishment that offers bowling and arcade-style games as well as food and beverage.

What We Ate

Early in the month, I met a couple of work friends for a drink and since I’m not currently drinking alcohol, I asked the bartender to make me something seasonal and non-alcoholic. This is what I got, and I wasn’t disappointed.

Caramel and apple with a sugar rim

I got a new cookbook and made a couple of recipes from it that our family really enjoyed:

old-fashioned beans with cornbread;  

and oil-poached fish.

We often go out for dinner on Veterans Day to take advantage of the deals for veterans because Phil is one. This year, we hit up Primanti Brothers again. 

I almost always get this salad.

And Primanti is known for sandwiches with a knife stuck in them.

As a treat for hanging out at band championships, we ate ice cream from Milton’s Ice Cream Shop at Hershey Park.

This jolly rancher sundae was our son’s choice.

While our son was rehearsing for the youth service at church, we took our daughter out for lunch to Rachel’s Creperie because we didn’t see much of her in the fall.

Coffee and crepe and tiramisu; what could be better?

Soup is unashamedly my favorite season. I could eat it every day. We made the following soups this month: vegetable Tortilla stew;

chicken chowder (not pictured, I guess);

stuffed pepper soup;

French onion soup;

potato leek soup.

And no November would be complete without a Thanksgiving feast.

This year we ate old-fashioned roast pork, mashed potato casserole, cornbread stuffing, pumpkin roll, and apple cider.

Mashed potato casserole was a hit–and so pretty!

At the tree lighting, we made sure to stop by Thom’s Bakery for a chocolate and powdered sugar topped waffle. I thought I took a picture but it’s not on my phone anymore. Trust me, it’s worth it.

While out with my book club friends, I had a flatbread pizza with mushrooms, cheese and arugula.

And I was pleasantly surprised to find they had mocktails on the menu, so one of my friends and I both ordered one.

Yum-o.

What We Watched

Richard Osman’s House of Games. It is now my favorite quiz show.

She-Hulk: Attorney at Law. We finished it. I loved it. I want more.

Election night coverage. Nuff said. That feels like an eternity ago.

SNL clips. Comedy is the cure for what ails me.

Nailed It! Halloween. Yes, we’re like a month behind on our holiday shows, but that fits our fall.

Macy’s Thanksgiving Day parade. Always. I like the music and the Broadway shows.

World Cup soccer. I am a World  Cup widow right now.

The National Dog Show. We caught this one on replay because of some big sporting event that’s happening for a month. I love the variety of dogs. Such good puppers. 

Slumberland. Netflix tricked us into thinking this was like a fun, feel-good family movie, and I NEARLY CRIED, NETFLIX. If I wanted to feel things that deeply, I’d pay attention to my life. (It wasn’t a bad movie. It just surprised me, that’s all.)

Schmigadoon!. We finally jumped on the Apple TV bandwagon (with a free trial) and started watching this series. I’m not sold on it yet.

The Crown. I finally got a chance to watch one episode. This is not really entertainment for me because I grew up in the Diana era and her life was a tragedy.

What We Read

Books I finished:

Portrait of a Thief by Grace D. Li. So much to love about this story. It felt like a combo of Ocean’s 11, Fast and the Furious and Crazy Rich Asians. A lot of twists I didn’t see coming.

Here For It by R. Eric Thomas. This was our fall book club pick. We were looking for something light and not too cumbersome. After reading an essay collection by Ann Patchett, another essay collection seemed appropriate and doable. Thomas’ storytelling is full of honesty, humor and hope (oh, look, I alliterated!) and I enjoyed reading about his journey as a gay, black Christian man. 

A Great Reckoning by Louise Penny. I’m looking forward to seeing Inspector Gamache hit the TV series screen in Three Pines on Prime. This was a roller-coaster ride, as is often the case with Louise Penny mysteries.

Poster Girl by Veronica Roth. I needed something different and I got it. I love Veronica Roth’s writing, and dystopia hits different when you live in a pandemic world but I still enjoyed this journey.

The Boyfriend Project by Farrah Rochon. Smart and funny. I can’t wait to read more.

Icebound by Andrea Pitzer. I’m mildly obsessed with polar exploration stories. This one focused on William Barents and his exploits in the Arctic Sea in the 16th Century. Polar bears, mutiny, being stranded by ice … I do not want to experience any of these things but I do like reading about them.

In progress:

Spy School at Sea by Stuart Gibbs. This one is taking us a long time because of our schedule.

Looking for Alaska by John Green. I thought I would have more time to read this at school than I do.

The Belle of Belgrave Square by Mimi Matthews. My current read.

Filed Under: monthly roundup Tagged With: fall, kids activities, soup

Short and sweet September: a monthly round-up

October 5, 2022

The month itself was not short but this review of our month will be because it seems like we hunkered down and got into routines and didn’t do a whole lot of extra stuff. It was the first full month of school and sports and all that those activities entail. Not every month has to be exciting. At least, that’s what I’m telling myself. I’m hoping for some slower days with more meaningful activities sprinkled in. We’ll see what October brings.

What We Did

The kids and Phil helped friends move then went to a deck party with some of our church friends. I was home sick with not-Covid.

Later that same weekend we took our friend David on a shopping spree for his new apartment, thanks to some generous gifts from friends.

David with his haul for his new home

My book club friends came over to hang out on the porch so we could plan our getaway weekend (you’ll have to wait for October’s round-up to hear about that).

We attended a bunch of away football games in support of the band (and because our son is really into football right now). Phil and our son went to the Homecoming game while I was on my weekend getaway.

Friday night lights in Lancaster County
Our son and his friend group cheering on the Bucks
The only non-blurry picture of the marching band I have because I’m so into the show!

Soccer. Our son is playing; Phil is coaching. These are our Saturdays.

Our son is the one on the ground

I went to an open house at the high school and met our daughter’s teachers, who all had nice things to say about her, which made my heart full to bursting.

The band hosted a show for other area bands and I worked an 8-hour shift in the concession stand, which was actually kind of fun.

Our last “summer” hike with church friends was at Speedwell Forge. We had a large group and lots of fun conversations.

I Preached. Again. I know. It’s becoming a bit of a thing. Click here if you want to have a watch/listen.

And I participated in the Munro Step Challenge, a fundraiser for Blood Cancer UK one of My Peak Challenge’s charity partners. During the entire month of September, I logged 312,607 steps. Wowza.

What We Ate 

I opted for a new meal planning method for the school year because I’m tired of eating all the same things and running to the store so often. So, a couple of times a month I pick a bunch of cookbooks off our shelves, page through them and write down every recipe that sounds good. Then I go to the Google doc that holds our weekly meal plans and I start slotting recipes. I note where the recipe is found and what ingredients we need, which then get transferred to the Google doc shopping list. We’ve eaten a variety of good stuff, none of which I remember to take a picture of because we’re always shoveling our dinners down before or in-between activities.

One that I did remember to photograph was baked eggs in collard greens.

We ate out a few times:

Jersey Mike’s with our friend David.

French fries from Nice Size Fries and ice cream from Lickety Split at one of the away football games.

Five Guys, before one of the football games.

I went to Guacamole Specialist with a friend and had this amazing guacamole bowl.

And soup! Of course. Phil dumped a bunch of leftovers in a pot and seasons them to perfection, and it tasted amazing. Fall is soup season and I love everything about it.

What We Watched

Grace and Frankie. I finally watched the last episode, and it was a good ending to the journey.

Press Your Luck and Richard Osman’s House of Games. Sometimes a good game show is all you need.

Arrested Development. The Bluths are my antidote to despair.

Grantchester. Always up for some murder-solving in England.

Thor: Love and Thunder. I liked it more than some members of my family did.

I’m rewatching Outlander when I can and because I can.

On Labor Day weekend, we stayed home and had a movie marathon of the following movies:

Ghostbusters (the 2016 reboot) Loved it. Funny. The cameos were great.

The Prom (a Netflix movie based on a musical about some washed-up Broadway actors who head to a small Indiana town to help put on an inclusive prom). Tear-jerker. Fun musical numbers. Meryl Streep is a goddess.

Dunkirk. This is one of my favorite stories from World War 2, and the movie is beautiful.

Rise. A basketball movie about Giannis, Thanasis and Kostas Antetokounmpo, Nigerian-Greek brothers who made it to the NBA.

What We Read

Books I finished: 

The Queen’s Fortune by Alison Pataki. Everyone knows about Napolean and Josephine, but no one knows much about Desiree Clary, the first woman to capture Napolean’s heart and who eventually became the matriarch of the current Swedish monarchy. Pataki makes a point to write about overlooked women in history, so now she’s on my list of must-read authors.

Out of My Mind by Sharon Draper. This one is hard to sum up in a few lines. Here’s what I said about it on Instagram. (If you don’t want to wait a whole month to find out what I’ve read/am reading, this is a good place to find my reading history.)

The Siren of Sussex by Mimi Matthews. A new-to-me historical fiction author that I’m looking forward to reading more from.

Murder on the Links by Agatha Christie. I suspected the murderer early on but didn’t know the how or why.

Books in progress:

The Miraculous Journey of Edward Tulane by Kate DiCamillo. I read this at school sometimes when I have some free time, which is almost never.

Spy School at Sea by Stuart Gibbs.

Here For It: Or, How to Save Your Soul in America by R. Eric Thomas. This is our book club pick for the fall, and the author’s voice takes some getting used to but he’s a great storyteller and I’m enjoying it so far.

Filed Under: monthly roundup Tagged With: fall, friday night lights, hiking, labor day weekend, marching band, movie marathon, munro step challenge, september, youth soccer

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