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Beauty on the Backroads

Stories of grace for life's unexpected turns

Fourth of July

Making the most of the middle month of summer

July 31, 2021

Well, it’s already round-up time again, although I’ll admit that I cut this one a little bit short because we headed out on vacation, and that will, I hope, be worthy of a separate post all about our road trip from Pennsylvania to Illinois and back with a bunch of stops in between. Until then, please enjoy this overview of our monthly action, eating, watching and reading.

What We Did

Early in the month, we attended a community fireworks celebration at our local baseball stadium. A bank in the area sponsored the free event. We ate some snack-y foods and drank sodas and beer while waiting for the show. It was a satisfying outing for the Fourth, and a way to test our anxiety about larger public gatherings. We might try to see a baseball game this summer now that we’ve been to the stadium when it’s full.

Apparently our son is in a making-faces phase.

Then, we celebrated the Fourth of July with our friend David. It was a two-months’ late celebration of our birthdays (he and I have our birthdays on the same day in May but we weren’t all fully vaccinated yet and school was still in session). He came over and hung out and we ate food. (See the What We Ate section for specifics.)

July gave us more catch-up time. We had friends over for a short hangout/lunch. The kids played games, the moms talked, and it was a lovely time of catching up.

They brought me these gorgeous flowers when they arrived!

And we hiked with church friends up to Eagle Rock, a moderate uphill climb at one of the nearby state gamelands.

The kids and I also attended a launch party for my friend Shawn’s new book, The Weight of Memory, at the beautiful creekside home of a friend of his. It was a fun night of celebrating creativity.

We went to the drive-in to see Black Widow. Since we’re all caught up on Marvel movies as a family, we thought this was a good way to see the newest release. It rained for close to half the movie which meant we were trapped inside a steamy car, wiping down the windshield. It’s been probably 20 years since Phil or I went to a drive-in movie. (There was a drive-in theater 10 minutes from where we grew up, so we went all.the.time as kids and youths.) Cars are different. People are different. (Sorta rude sometimes.) But it was a good experience.

I had to eat my ice cream fast before it melted

I had lunch with a couple of work friends. Way back in May, I had ordered some end-of-year gifts for two of my co-workers and the shipping was delayed until after school was already out. Then with vacations and such, we finally found a time to get together for lunch. It was a fun time of catching up.

As a family, we hiked the Turkey Hill Trail near the Susquehanna River. It was more than 6 miles on a steamy summer day. And it was labeled as strenuous. (It was not wrong.)

Just a sample of the uphill part of the trail

We almost ran out of water. We had to rest in the shade in the last two miles so those of us sensitive to heat did not succumb to its pressures. But overall it was a great hike! Beautiful and challenging with varied terrain and lots of good views. We hiked a ridge line, crossed a creek (no one fell in this time) and walked through a wildflower field.

So pretty

Phil saw a bunch of birds, including an indigo bunting, which was one he’d never seen before. We looked at it through the scope and it was brilliantly blue. We haven’t had a lot of hiking opportunities this summer compared to last summer, so we’re trying to make them count. Despite some whining, complaining and mild fighting (all part of the hiking process these days, I think) we all really enjoyed this hike.

I love a ridgeline river view

Haircuts! Daughter and I went a little bit shorter for the rest of summer.

Summer hair, do care

Long’s Park Summer Music Series! We missed the first one of the return to summer concerts because we were at the drive-in, but we made sure to make it to the next one. Maggie Rose and Them Vibes performed. According to our son, “This band is A LOT.”

Them Vibes … a fun show

He wasn’t wrong, and I wasn’t informed that there would be a ’70s costume contest. The music was amazing, though, and I didn’t realize how much I missed hearing it live with crowds of other people. (Outdoor crowds. I’m still not an indoor crowds person.) A lovely Sunday evening.

Vacation prep. Going on vacation is so much work. It’s worth it, but it’s so much work!

This is what happens when you leave a teenager alone in the snack aisle

What We Ate

Mac and cheese pizza. Our son has added to his weekly menu rotation. I under-seasoned this, so next time, I’ll adjust that part of it. Otherwise, it wasn’t too bad.

We used boxed mac and cheese for the topping

For our Fourth of July gathering: baby back ribs, creamy potato salad, grilled zucchini, and, of course, cake.

Ribs, potato salad, grilled zucchini
I almost forgot to take a picture of the cake

Breakfast at Gracie’s on West Main. Phil took me out for a breakfast date on a Wednesday when we couldn’t go to the woods because of appointments and a heat advisory. I had the Gracie’s breakfast: two eggs, bacon, home fries, a slice of toast and a slice of banana bread. Phil had the chili hash. We ordered banana bread to take home for the children because we’re nice like that. (And as the kids were putting away dishes, a glass broke and they cleaned it all up with a little direction from us.)

There is no bad choice at Gracie’s

Ice cream. We hit our Wednesdays hard on the ice cream trail. First up was Pine View Dairy, which has the best waffle cones in the county, hands-down; our choices for flavors were: butter brickle, strawberry cheesecake, triple dark chocolate and chocolate chip cookie dough.

Strawberry cheesecake

Then it was Oregon Dairy. But it was so hot we had to eat these so fast, plus we’d gotten double scoops because this was “dinner” after our hike and late lunch. We were a mess by the time it was over. Flavor choices (we each had two different ones): cashew raspberry and cookie monster; unicorn and rainbow sherbet; coconut almond fudge and salted caramel truffle; chocolate fudge brownie and chocolate marshmallow. The waffle cones were just meh. I think we would have enjoyed this more if we hadn’t had to inhale them.

An ice cream crime was committed

Finally, we went back to Good Life because they had sweet corn ice cream available and our son really wanted to try it. So, that’s what he had: sweet corn ice cream sprinkled with Old Bay; other flavors we ate: fresh mint with oreos mixed in; raspberry with butter cream and brownies mixed in; blueberry with graham cracker crumbs and pecans. It’s hard to top Good Life for us because of the overall quality of what we eat there.

Cheers for ice cream

Pattypan pizzas. I went out to the garden one afternoon and discovered our squash plant had been BUSY. So I pivoted on our dinner plans and made these personal pattypan pizzas. Our son, who last year was not a big fan of squash, ate it and liked it.

Pizza on a squash

Kenyan braised collards and meat. This was just something different to use up some of our garden produce.

Internet recipe for the win

Popcorn and ice cream and snow cones at the drive-in.

Pattypan squash stuffed with pork and rice, topped with parmesan. I get asked a lot what we do with the pattypan squash. Here is exhibit B.

Pattypan stuffed with pork and rice

What We Watched

When Calls the Heart. I finished season 8. That’s all I’m going to say about that.

All the Bright Places. Apparently I was in a YA mood after finishing the book Not If I Save You First, so I watched the movie version of the book I’d read with my book club last school year. 

Falcon and the Winter Soldier. This is our Saturday night show but we spent a couple of Saturdays outside the house, so we got back on track. I love the banter.

Kim’s Convenience. A solid comedy choice for nights when we don’t have a lot of time to invest in a show.

Fresh Fried and Crispy. We checked out one episode of this and learned about some new foods we’d like to try if ever we’re in St. Louis. But the show overall feels overproduced and maybe for the TikTok/Youtube viewer. I don’t know if we’ll go back to this.

Upload. So much yes. We watched one episode and it’s good.

Legomasters. Every week, the creativity leaves me in awe, and I’m 100 percent sure I don’t have the patience for epic Lego builds.

Love and Friendship, a movie adaptation of a Jane Austen story, Lady Susan, I’d never heard of. It had some funny moments.

Black Widow. Amazing. I can’t wait to rewatch so we can fully appreciate the storyline without thunderstorm interruption.

Virgin River. I had to start a new series for me in the evenings after I’m done working and taking care of people for the day. I got to episode 2 and realized this was based on a book series! My TBR pile keeps growing. There’s only a 6-month wait for the first book on the library’s digital book app.

Rick Steves’ Europe. Our favorite travel show with Debra and David Rixon is no longer included with Amazon Prime, so to get our travel fix, we have to look elsewhere. We watched one episode with Rick Steves about the Austrian and Italian Alps. Do I want to take a cable car to the top of a mountain? Yes. Would I be anxious about the whole thing? Also, yes.

Nailed It! The kids and I finished the current season.

The Olympics.

What We Read

Not If I Save You First by Ally Carter. A recommendation from the middle school librarian, and a perfect choice for my North America selection for the Read Around the World Challenge.

Spy School by Stuart Gibbs. Another read-aloud at bedtime. Hilarious. And page-turning.

South by Ernest Shackleton. I’m obsessed with this real-life exploration adventure and I need a book set in Antarctica for my Read Around the World challenge. Written in the explorer’s own words, it’s sometimes technical but also fascinating.

On the Way to the Wedding by Julia Quinn. The final Bridgerton book. (Except there’s a prequel, I think, and some bonus epilogues I haven’t read.) My favorite of all the books. Now to wait (not so patiently) for Netflix to catch up.

Found by Margaret Peterson Haddix. Of course, I finish this one and immediately want to read the next one. I’m having a problem with starting a bunch of series and getting overwhelmed by wanting to finish them all.

A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman. Maybe my favorite read of the whole year so far. I love One and his grumpy nature, and the way the story builds is just brilliant: slow at the start, drawing you in until you realize what’s happening, then everything goes NOT according to the main character’s plan and you can’t stop reading. This is on my all-time favorites list. (Now maybe I should actually make that list.)

Crazy Rich Asians by Kevin Kwan. I was overwhelmed by this one at first because there is an extensive family tree at the beginning of the book, but once I was invested in the characters, the lineage didn’t matter so much, and I couldn’t put it down. This one checks the box for Asia for my Read Around the World challenge for the library’s summer reading program.

The House of the Spirits by Isabel Allende. My pick for South America on the Read Around the World challenge. It’s a slower pace than what I usually read but beautiful so far. 

Filed Under: monthly roundup, Summer Tagged With: family hiking, Fourth of July, summer break

When a year leaves me in awe

July 7, 2014

We huddled on a blanket as fireworks launched over our heads in a burst of color and sound, the literal kind of fireworks that are so prevalent on the Fourth of July, not the figurative kind lest you think me some kind of sappy romantic. (Okay, sometimes I’m guilty.)

fireworks 1

I watched with lips parted, uttering the occasional “oh” and “wow.”

I’ve seen dozens of fireworks displays through the years, some better than others. Maybe it was the absence of our kids or the gathering of friends or something yet unnamed, but this show of sparkle and sound left me in awe.

Moments earlier, a Civil War-era cannon brigade fired 16 times during the 1812 Overture, leaving my heart pounding as I giggled like a teenager and clung to my husband.

It was, all of it, a celebration of freedom and life and even as we sat in traffic waiting to leave the mall parking lot, I was grateful.

For this and so much more.

—

A year ago, we sat on the edges of the group who’d gathered, unsure of ourselves and our place and how we’d fit in. We were moving soon and this would become our family and though we couldn’t stay for the entire picnic, we dropped in to say “hi” and introduce ourselves. Our kids played on the playground and we met new people and we left with hope that this whole moving to a new city thing was going to work out okay.

Later that week, people we hardly knew showed up to our house, driving nearly an hour on a Saturday to sweat and lift and pack up the life of a family they had no blood connection to. They chauffeured our stuff to our new house where Phil and I sat amazed at the amount of work accomplished in so little time.

It took us months to settle in (in truth a year later, we still have unsettled areas) at least where our “stuff” is concerned but our hearts are a different story. They began to settle that day when near-strangers adopted us as family and ushered us in to our new community with grace, love, sweat and sore muscles.

But it was only the beginning.

fireworks 3

—

It’s been one year. One. Year. We’ve spent a whole year of our lives in our new home, our new community, and some days I can hardly believe it’s only been a year. The people who fill our daily lives have deeply embedded themselves in our hearts.

I am always amazed at the people God brings into our lives when we move to a new area, people I can’t imagine having never known. People who love us and our kids. People who challenge our thinking and encourage us in our struggles. People who offer us tangible support and friendship.

I used to let people in only so far, never knowing if we would be sticking around only for a few years. If I didn’t get too attached, it wouldn’t be too hard to leave, I told myself.

But this year has taught me that love with abandon is deep and fulfilling. It’s scary and wild and no guarantee against hurt or disappointment.

It is overwhelming, too.

In one year I have more people I can call “friend” than I did in multiple years when we first moved to Pennsylvania. It is good and yet I am forever falling short in maintaining and investing in these relationships.

Perhaps my goal for the next year will be that.

—

There are years I look back on and wonder how we survived. And I marvel at the work God did to bring us through and how He has changed us.

And then there’s this year of living in Lancaster. Not perfect but altogether good, without any soul-crushing low points.fireworks 2

And I can’t hardly put into words what I feel–how a year can be filled with such goodness, not because we deserve it or have earned it but because it is a gift.

This year, it has been a gift. Better than any wrapped present or expensive purchase. It has been a year to renew our hope, restore our relationships and heal our hurts. And just as those years of trials have changed us, so has a year of goodness.

We are moving toward our best selves, the people God wants to make us. We are healthier in our whole selves, not just getting by but taking tiny steps toward thriving. We are thankful. Less grumbling. Less bitter. More aware that this journey is not about us and the plans we’ve made but about God and the dreams He has for us.

It is not perfect because we are not perfect, but it is good and I will rest in that.

And a year from now, let it be said that we embraced each day knowing that God was at work for good.

Filed Under: faith & spirituality Tagged With: church, community, fireworks, Fourth of July, God working for good, moving

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