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obedience

Why going to Kenya doesn't make me brave

July 27, 2015

If you haven’t heard by now, we’re going to Kenya, my  husband and me. We leave today, actually. And because of team policies and unpredictable WiFi and the desperate need we all have to disconnect, I won’t be around much on the blog, e-mail or social media. So, don’t worry if I go silent. You probably won’t even miss me. If you’re on Facebook and want a few updates on what our team is doing, you can “like” our church’s page. We’ll be posting some updates there.

Otherwise, anything you see from me online this week is most likely scheduled ahead of time. (The wonder of the Internet!)

So, we’re packing up and heading out on this wild and wonderful trip. Two weeks ago, I was a mess of emotions when I realized how little I’d be in contact in with my kids combined with all the other normal anxiety about traveling to a different continent and experiencing so many new things in a short amount of time.

I almost wanted to back out of the whole trip. I’m sorry. I was wrong. What was I thinking? I can’t go to AFRICA!?!? 

I’m grateful that God continues to show me He’s in this all the way. Donations keep pouring in from surprising sources. When we set a goal in January of raising $30,000 for the team of 15, I know I thought it was nearly impossible. Now, as of this writing, we’re within hundreds of dollars of that goal.

This trip will be my first time out of the country on a mission trip. In college, I spent a semester in England. And later I participated in two mission trips within the States, but never have I combined the two, and never have I been to Africa.

I want you to know a couple of things, in case I forget to say them when we get back. I’m expecting Africa to give me a lot to write about and think about, so I want you to hear this now.

Going to Africa doesn’t make me a brave person.

I struggle with anxiety in new situations, and I have control issues. Africa is going to challenge me on both of those fronts. We won’t have a lot of access to our kids while we’re gone, and I spent two days in an emotional tailspin over this.

I am not going to Africa because I’m so brave and adventurous.

Honestly, I’m not actually sure why I’m going to Africa. Except that God opened the door in a very specific way. And despite various trying circumstances over the last 7 to 8 months, He has continued to show His approval.

Africaobedience

Going to Africa is not an act of bravery; it is an act of obedience.

Sometimes I think that I first have to be brave in order to follow God’s lead. But more often than not, I think following God first, even if I’m scared, can lead to bravery.

And maybe the people we think are brave are really just obedient.

I don’t know about you, but when I see someone doing something I don’t think I could do, I label them as “brave” so that I can put them in a category that doesn’t include me. That person is so brave. I could never do that. And then it’s easy for me to stay comfortable and not think about what God might be wanting me to do.

We call other people brave so we don’t have to consider what it would be like to follow God like that.

But obedience isn’t only for the brave people. Anyone can follow God, brave or not. Even you. Even me.

Trust me, if I can do it, so can you.

Will you remember that the next time you’re presented with the chance to follow God into some unknown place, whether it’s physical or spiritual or emotional or circumstantial? You don’t have to be brave first to follow where He leads. You can be afraid, uncertain, anxious or overwhelmed and still say “Yes. I’ll do that.”

Don’t wait until you feel brave. Don’t count yourself out because you’re not adventurous. Don’t beat yourself up that you aren’t like those other people who are doing the hard/scary/fun thing.

You can do it, too. Even if you have to do it afraid.

So, maybe God won’t lead you on a trip to Kenya, but maybe He’ll lead you somewhere else. When you hear about what we’re doing and experiencing over the next 10 days, just remember that some of us are trembling as we trek.

See you in a few weeks!

Filed Under: faith & spirituality, Kenya, Travel Tagged With: bravery, kenya, mission trips, obedience

Learning the Art of Self-challenge by Jason Jaggard

January 7, 2013

Here’s another slice of New Year’s wisdom, this time by speaker and writer Jason Jaggard. Challenging advice.

Through taking healthy risks that make you a better person or the  world a better place, you begin to develop a deeper appetite for good.  At first it might not be very tasty. Taking even a small risk can be  more difficult than it sounds. And that is why we have to practice. We  have to develop the skill of challenging ourselves.

We want the act of making healthy choices to become a natural and  authentic part of who we are. But before something can become a habit,  it often is a hassle. Put another way: if we want new habits to become  instinctual, then they must first be intentional. And in order for that  to happen, we have to practice the sacred art of self-challenge.

sparkwordI don’t want to freak you out, but what we’re really talking about is  obedience. Obedience to God is the path that leads to Life. It’s the  path that transforms you into the person you long to be. And obedience always requires risk.

What’s amazing is that much of our obedience is instinctual. In at  least some areas of life, we naturally make healthy choices. We  naturally smile at a stranger, or perhaps we have a great work ethic or  are naturally curious or easygoing.

Yet we can’t define obedience solely in terms of what comes naturally. Often our greatest moments of obedience come when it is least  natural. Perhaps our natural tendency in certain situations is  unhealthy or hurtful. Or perhaps what we naturally want to do is  nothing, to avoid taking action when action is called for. In these  moments we have to choose something else, something we don’t want to do,  something that, most likely, will move us into the space of the  unknown.

I want to be a person who is able to act—who is able to obey—even when it’s unnatural.

Intentionality and risk are the ways we develop a greater capacity to  obey. When we say, “I’m going to do this thing that I wouldn’t normally  do,” we are developing the capacity to grow into the people we were  meant to be.

When Jesus invited people to follow Him, He was inviting them to obey  Him. There are parts of you that already reflect God’s character, parts  of your uniqueness that are expressions of something God wanted to say  when He created you. Those are already consistent with following Jesus.

Maybe it’s your smile. Maybe it’s your way with people. Maybe it’s your work ethic. Maybe it’s your sense of right and wrong. Maybe it’s your intelligence or your curiosity for life. Maybe it’s your sense of responsibility or your flare for fun.

These things are good just the way they are. It’s easy to obey when  God calls us to things we naturally love. When God calls us to the stuff  we already like (which happens a lot more than we realize), it’s one of  the great pleasures of life.

Risk is the central narrative of the scriptures. When I do Spark  Group trainings with faith communities, I always have participants do  this exercise:

1. Pick any person in the scriptures that comes to mind. 2. Identify the risk God called that person to take.

This is surprisingly easy. And once people get going, it’s hard to  get them to stop. Abraham: stopped living with his parents at age  seventy and moved into no man’s land to start his own nation. Moses:  even with a speech impediment, he stood up to the most powerful man in  the world to liberate an enslaved people. Mary: endured the shame of  people assuming she had been unfaithful to her fiancé. Joseph: remained  committed to a teenage girl, his fiancée, who in the eyes of their  neighbors and extended family was almost certainly an adulteress.

Samson.

Ruth.

The apostle Paul.

Rahab.

The twelve fellas who quit their jobs to follow Jesus, most of whom were later killed for doing so. The people whose stories are recorded in the history of the scriptures  all took risks—often huge risks—to be a part of what God was doing in  the world. It seems like a prerequisite for being mentioned in the  narrative of the movement of God is the willingness and courage to risk. Like God’s people throughout history, we can jump into life in ways  that only we can so that God can move in ways we cannot. Call it faith  if you want, but in terms of everyday life, it’s risk. And it’s through  risk that God can change our lives.

Faith. Love. Hope.

Risk. Compassion. Optimism.

When we begin to live out these values, we create a context that is  thick with potential. When we have the courage to take risks of compassion that produce optimism in others, we create space for God to move and work. We begin to form our souls into the kind of textured lives that gives God traction to guide us into the future He dreamed we could  participate in. And we become fully alive.

This is what Jesus did two thousand years ago. He assembled a team  and spent three years with them, throwing them into the deep end of  serving humanity. Coaching them. Teaching them. And then He kept saying  weird things, such as “Have faith in me and you will do greater things  than what I have done.”

And then, before He turned His followers and friends loose to serve  humanity on God’s behalf, He said: “Go, create cultures of servant leadership, of risk, compassion, and optimism out of every society.”

He looked into the eyes of folks like you and me and said, “Go.” Risk. Care. Create. Just like the people you’ve read about in this book, you have ideas  that need to be set free. God has placed potential inside you, potential  for creative joy and love, strength and peace. And all of that needs to  be unleashed.

So risk. Choose something. Do something. Partner together with God  and others to pull off something beautiful that serves humanity. It will  be hard. You will experience failure. But I promise, you will never regret it.

As Steven Ma put it: “It’s definitely a challenge. It’s definitely a risk. But most important: it’s fun.” This is the way the world heals. It is the way God has chosen to move  through the contours of history. He has chosen our hearts, our feet, our  fingertips. Some people will hear God’s voice only if it sounds like  ours, inviting them into the adventure of hope that we have been invited  into.

This is how we spark our world. When we begin to realize that  learning is a verb and that life is the best classroom. When we begin  taking risks of compassion in the context of community. When we start  intentionally leaning into our relationships, our careers, our faith.  When we step outside of our comfort zones and experience a life that can  exist only if God is with us.

Our world will begin to change.

One small risk at a time.

Adapted from Spark by Jason Jaggard with permission of WaterBrook Press, a division of Random House, Inc. All rights reserved.

Filed Under: faith & spirituality Tagged With: healthy risks, jason jaggard, new year's challenges, obedience, spark

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